SHOULD I KNOCK THE MESS OUT OF tHIS KID IVE HAD ENOUGH?

Question

Okay last year we got in a disagreement because we were selling chips in school and i told him in the begining that if he dosent bring anything in for us to tell he wont get paid no matter how much he sells so when we were sold out about 3 days latter he told me he is ready for his pay and im like you didnt bring anything in and he says i never said that and i better give him his pay and im like NO so he starts talking stuff and calling me a terriost and stuff because of my last name so i ingore it then he goes around talking negativly about me to everyone and finally i had enough and go up and screamed at out cursing him out and everything and he was just stunned and didnt say anything them my friends were instegating and saying you gonna take that you scared blah blah blah so he called me a lame so i went up to him and pushed him and pulled my fist back to punch him but my friend got in the way on purpose and told me to let it go and the situation wared of over time but i was like forget that and i told him when we get out of school imma knock him out so when school was out i was waiting for him but he wasent anywhere to be found untill finally when i was about to leave i hear him yea you said you wanted to fight me so i run over to him just talking stuff and i was waiting for him to throw the first punch because im never the agressor but my brother told me dont fight this lame dude and was holding me ..soand i wasent friends with the guy but he didnt say anything to me and i didnt say anything to me untill like a month

our class went out to gym but me and him was still in the room and i was walking out but i tripped of a bookbag on the floor and he came over me pretending like he beat me up because i was on the floor and a guy walked in and said you let him beat you up and they guy who i had been fueding with lied and said yes and im like you liar i tripped over the desk but they went around telling everyone he beat me up so when we went into the hallway and was still yapping about how he beat me up so i pushed him in the hall way and chocked and but a teacher came and i was wrote up so after that i really didnt say anything much to him and he didnt say much to me

now that was last year i havent rarley talk to him and he is in my school this year and today at lunch he was throwing food at the person sitting next to be and i told him to stop because it might hit me and he started talking rough to me so i through my lunch plate with a sloppy joe on it and starting talking mess back to him and we both was just talkking mess and the whole lunch room was like ohhhhhhh fight fight fight so eventually we just turned around in our tables and i could hear him at the table talking mess about me and stuff and a girl was like dont talk about him like that i bet you wont say it to his face and he was just talking stuff about me then we just went on with out day ignoring each other and went back to class till school ended and tommorow is a new day should i beat him up if he says anything else to me im sick and tired of him and he needs to be taught a lesson

Answer 1

should talk to your counselor or your parent before you do something. It is not worth for you...try something new and move on.....forgive and ignore that kid

Answer 2

I think your priority should be to take care of your kids, and work on yourself, not get a relationship. Actually, with all these kids and where you are at, it's probably better if you avoid any contacts with men for a while. If not, I predict you'll just have more kids and end up in a worse situation than you already are. You need to work on yourself. Try to figure out why you need to have a man so bad, and why you have sex and you don't use contraception. There is a logical explanation to everything. Maybe it's something in your past...a difficult experience that made you behave this way. Do this work on yourself, you owe that to your kids and to yourself. Good luck!

Answer 3

He does not sound worth it actually unless he makes the first move and then defend yourself but otherwise stay out of trouble. The only other thing you can say is that since he told everyone that "he beat you up" when you actually tripped over something and maybe he should try to do it again since he is such a tuff guy. When he doesn't the smarter people will pretty much figure out that he is just all mouth and trouble and while people may listen to him they won't like him anymore nor you any less. Actually the people that count the most (your friends) will like him and respect him even less probably. FAIDO-forget about it and drive on!

Answer 4

Dear Avatar A,


Well, first things first, you should of had paid him no matter what. He worked hard too hard, I mean, sold out in three days? He must of had worked his butt off to do that.No offense but you sound like little kids. Mental and literal. Second you should talk too your counselor, talk to him about your situation and if he calls up your enemy tell him too tell your enemy that an anonymous report so it won't look bad on your rep.


If you have done that, and he is still talking smack, then I would kick his a//ss. At least get him on the floor don't stomp, because you can be charged by attempted murder if you hit near his temple. At least get two hits on the face and knock him too the floor and walk away. If he gets up and still wants too fight then repeat but add some punches to the liver or kidney he'll be out by then.

Answer 5

really, this guy just sounds like an idiot who is trying to look cool. he really isn't worth your time at all. just forget about it. the little prick probably just thinks it's funny. if he attacks you, by all means kick his ***, but don't fight him unless he throws the first punch. the dude just wants attention. people used to do stuff like this to me all the time until i realised that they're just retards and that i have much more productive things to do then sit around and let this prick effect me. Then i just ignored them and they all started leaving me alone. if you fight the guy then the law might get involved; and no one wants a bad record. and if he tries to fight you, just tell him you don't want to fight and if he threatens you just put your hands up open palm (basically a less threatening fighting stance) then no one will be able to press charges if you do fight him. don't knock him out though. he probably just tries to get attention by pushing you down. he may be a retard, but no matter how much you want to hurt him you just have to be the bigger man. and if your "friends" stop thinking you're "cool" good for you. they were never really your friends in the first place.

Answer 6

No, you really need to let him be the aggressor, and don't bait him.

I'm not sure what country you're in, but in the U.S., it's more common to get law enforcement involved in schoolyard brawls, and increasingly, lawsuits are being filed against the aggressor (or without witnesses, the one left standing).

Not to mention that a person can die or be serious injured by a simple shove or even a not-too-hard punch. Play it safe and take the high road! (and try to be less wordy, w/yer questions, fer crysakes!)

Answer 7

Before I answer your question, use full stops and punctuation. That was an absolute nightmare to read.

Anyway, I say just let it go until he touches you. Thats a whole different story - as soon as he starts with the physicals you give it right back.

Answer 8

I know you're angry but see if you can vent off on a punch bag instead of this person. He really isn't worth your time or effort stewing mad over him. Do you realize that while you're angry at him and being pissed off, how little that affects him? If he knows you're angry, he probably thinks that's funny. You're then just rewarding him for annoying you. Don't do that anymore. Next time just ignore him and once he figures out that he can't get any reaction from you he will bug someone else.

Answer 9

well rules were made to be broken i say if he keeps saying stuff like that about you look him straight in the face and say "please stop saying that about me" if he says no or ignores you shove him to show your serious then it'll continue from there or i got this other idea from a fight i saw at my school get one of your friends to pretend push you into him then it begins

Answer 10

dont do anything but the second he touches you with no mercy finish him. Knock him out