I am still with this man who is in Iraq. He sends tons of message that how much he loves me, he wants to spend life with me, stuff like that. I am also 4months pregnant. He said he is very happy and he is planning to have his leave in Jan and come see me.
BUT,I just found out that some websites that he goes to and never told me. In myspace He did put there as "divorced", he has divorced from couple of his marriages. Although he never mentioning about relationship with me there. He once told me he has to go to Iraq to save money for me and baby. He wrote he had to go Iraq because he has to support his 12year old son, nothing else about me and baby.
Also, I saw his profile at Adultfriendfinder.com. I had to sign up to see his profile.he was wanting to meet some woman who match with his type or sex life. He did not put any naked/sexual pictures himself there, just one face picture with his army uniform. he wants no long distance relationship. I live in NY and he lives in GA.
2007-12-13 09:54:37 · 8 answers · asked by Momoiro 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Military
I would say if he's already been divorced a few times, it's probably for a reason. About the myspace thing... He should have something up about you and the baby, but keep in mind that his 12 year-old was in his life before you were. It also depends on how active he is online. Maybe he just hasn't updated in a while. I have no clue, but something to double check. If he has a profile on an adult website, he's probably doing other "adult" things too. Think twice before staying with this guy.
2007-12-13 18:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by Maggie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GD, as Ann Landers (or was it Dear Abby) used to say "wake up and smell the coffee" Read what you wrote! He is divorced from a "couple" of marriages, he put in his Myspace site having to support his kid but not you, he has an "Adult friend finder" profile d-a-m-n do you need a slap to the face to see you've hooked up with a "player" and sadly you want to defend him "just one face picture" if it had been a picture of him below the waste would you be ready to leave?
Wake Up and Smell The Coffee! get out while you can and see that he pays child support. Hey maybe you'll see references to you in his next AFF profile!
2007-12-13 10:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Says it all:
As he has had previous relationships, including being married, divorced and moving on, he is only out for a good time.
Why would he mention you, especially on A.F.F. which is basically a site for people who are seeking sexual relationships and not commitment??
That Erudite is a troll and his advice pure crap!!!
Does this sound like a guy who really cares about you??
Dump the loser, but make sure he pays for the raising of the child!!!
2007-12-13 21:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by conranger1 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to go with your gut feeling, do you think he is not a genuine guy for you, then you have your answer. And it sounds like he is not anything to save, right ?
2007-12-13 09:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He will not change. He is who you already know. You will fail if you just try to see what you want in life. Sorry.
2007-12-13 10:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by The Mechanic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea. It's normal. Many people do this. It's really no big deal. This is just role playing. Now that you are on that site (For Adults) it is now possible for you to meet some nice people. Good luck.
2007-12-13 10:16:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
this man is a loser...dont waste any time on him....but seriously you need to get your life in order, because if you need to ask this type of thing in here....are you trying to convince us or yourself.......no this is not normal.
2007-12-13 10:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine d 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
P L A Y A ! ! !
2007-12-13 10:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋