lets say i had premarital sex with my girlfriend. now i go on to marry this girl and have a family. technically i sinned ( sex before marriage) but i did this with my future wife at the time and im NOT sorry about it. so now what? Do i go to hell because of this? while murderers may truly repent what they have done and get into heaven? sounds stupid. no matter how hard i try i just am not sorry for doing this and in my mind why would i be sorry? so am i officially headed to hell?
2007-12-13 09:51:21 · 16 answers · asked by Hockey_star104 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
no1home2...ok so you basically want me to say " sorry hunny, but i didnt emjoy making love to you before we were married because it was wrong. it was good and all, but becayse you were not my wife at the time, im not allowed to enjoy that special bond we shared, so sorry" if anyone thinks that is legit, you are in need of a brain transplant. 1) that is very rude and 2) what if at the end of the day there is no god? i just turned my back on the one special person i had in life and made them feel like complete crap for nothing. your going to be a great husband man, i pitty your bride
2007-12-13 10:02:15 · update #1
read read read ,Paul was specific in the bible on this very thing ..
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.............just study for yourself.you sound like Adam .BUT the woman thou gave-st me she ......la di da di da..so on.
listen.a lie is an untruth but an untruth is not a lie.untruth is made when a statement is made not having the facts.lies hide things,If you had properly studied the bible and yes I said properly .you would see that Paul actually permitts this very thing.BUT doesn't recommend the action.
2007-12-13 10:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by dwayne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it incredibly is advisable to start by way of forgetting approximately what everybody else has informed you and initiate listening to your own coronary heart. There you will locate all the solutions. :) what's considered sin to a minimum of one isn't considered sin to a distinctive. subsequently you bypass by way of what resonates or speaks to your own coronary heart. The word 'sin' is amazingly passe'. We make blunders, it incredibly is how we study, i don't call that sin. whether we've finished some thing incorrect intentionally at one time or yet another we nevertheless discovered from it and moved on. We might have felt undesirable approximately it and apologized for it interior of, all of us do. no less than it incredibly is unskillful living, yet we study from blunders and errs, it incredibly is to be predicted. God sees the coronary heart, what your objective is, guy can not see this, consequently that is not as much as guy to decide yet another person, try as he might he will honestly condemn others for what they are doing while he himself has no thought of what he's doing. In different words, attempt to offer up annoying approximately it, "God is conscious your intentions and your coronary heart." :)
2016-12-17 17:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by behl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, you've just become like everyone else. You've sinned. Sinning is not what designates our place in all of eternity. Repenting is not just about being sorry, it actually means to turn away from. Meaning don't do it anymore. What makes us repent is the Holy Spirit convicting us. Perhaps that has not occurred thus far, doesn't mean you won't eventually repent.
Oh and you are only keeping God at a distance by not repenting. Sin separates us from God, Jesus is that bridge back. Tell him how you feel, see what he says.
2007-12-13 10:02:09 · answer #3 · answered by BlondieNY 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, you would not go to hell, the main reason being that it doesn't exist. Any god that was truly merciful and loving couldn't care less what people do with their genitalia, as long as it isn't hurting anybody. Sexuality is a basic, instinctual human emotion and sexual desire is the most natural thing in the world, and repressing those desires does nothing but cause all kinds of psychoses in the future.
2007-12-13 09:58:07 · answer #4 · answered by Molten Orange 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
If this is what you turely believe in this yes you sinned. No you will for not go to hell for such a thing. This is why religion is so wrong. If your not sorry, then don't say sorry. Im not going to say sorry for something Im not sorry for. People have made it that way to confert people so that in the future there will be peace. But that will never happen. Don't say sorry, or ask for forgivness because you are not sorry. If that is truely your religion though, then yes you did sin. But everyone sins. I don't believe you will go to hell for something such a small ordeal.
2007-12-13 09:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Kitten 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did not sin. Just because you had sex before you were "married" by the court does not mean that you weren't "married" spiritually to your wife. You need not be sorry for that. Think of Isaac and Rebekah. Isaac did not "marry" Rebekah, he simply took her into his tent to be his wife. Marriage is a state of mind, and is not legitimized by a piece of paper, though it's a good idea. You're not going to hell, God judges the intentions of the heart.
2007-12-13 09:57:56 · answer #6 · answered by mommyoffour 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you're heart is right with God, you will not go to hell. Sex before marriage is only one of the many many many sins you (and I) have committed. Why would you single that out?
2007-12-13 09:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by Prof Fruitcake 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The question is have you ever given your heart to Christ and asked Him to be your savior, confessed your sins to Him and repented? these are the qualifications for going to heaven,if you haven't then you are still guilty of your sins and not having accepted Christ whom God sent then yes you will go to hell.
2007-12-13 09:59:30 · answer #8 · answered by Steiner 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah, well that's a good thing there is no hell. Sin as much as you want.
2007-12-13 10:00:49 · answer #9 · answered by Flintstoner 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you do something you know you shouldn't do...acknowledge it as something you shouldn't do...and enjoy doing it any way....(excluding harming another person)
That's the nature of man....
I wouldn't worry too much about the mythical "hell".
2007-12-13 09:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Adam G 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋