dream???????

Question

me and my boyfriend live together and love eachother very much but i had a dream i cheated on him. i felt so bad and it was only a dream what does that mean

he found out i cheated on him in a dream..

Answer 1

You probably shouldn't tell him when you have a dream of cheating on him, it would cause him needless worry, and especially as you say that you love him, you don't need him to start feeling insecure. No one person, no matter how compatible they may be, is going to fulfill all of our needs though, and sometimes we play that out in our dreams. It was only a dream, and you should remember that. There isn't really enough information here to interpret the dream, it depends on all of the symbols, and the story line, how the different symbols interact to tell the story. It's possible that you have some concerns about the relationship that need to be worked on, and also possible that you are simply playing out a fantasy, in order to meet a need that isn't being met in the relationship. Don't feel bad about yourself for having this dream, but pay attention to your dreams, as they may offer information that you may be trying to hide from yourself in your waking life.....good luck......

Answer 2

First, always check the obvious. Is there something going on in the relationship that you are unhappy with or uncomfortable with. This dream could be your subconscious telling you that you're not quite satisfied in waking life.

Second, sure, you feel bad now that you're awake and remember it, but how did you feel DURING the dream?

And lastly, since your boyfriend "found out" about the dream, I'm assuming you told him. This makes me think that maybe there IS something you're unsatisfied with in the relationship, something that leaves you wanting more, and you're not sure how to tell him, or even what it is. You might secretly hope that if he knows you're dreaming of cheating, he'll "fix" whatever it is before you cheat in real life.

Of course, only you know what your dream means. If none of the above makes sense, then just accept that you had a pleasant dream and don't feel guilty about it.

I hope this helps. :-)

Answer 3

To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship.

So basically try something new in the bed. Rent some erotica porn movie(I've heard exit to eden is rather tame), watch it together, then try it yourselves if it apeals to you. It doesn't mean your unfaithful, it just means you are most likely looking for more excitement in your sex life.

Answer 4

Dreams often express our innermost worries that we do not want to confront most of the time. It appears that both of you are worried about the same thing, which shows that you really love each other. So just don't cheat and both of you will be fine.

Answer 5

Its only a dream, u didnt really cheat on him

Answer 6

Perhaps subconsciously you have doubts about yourself - about whether you can keep this relationship going. Or perhaps you have an attraction to someone else that you don't realize at a conscious level. Or perhaps it is nothing.

Answer 7

it means that you are having doubts about how much you really love him ... either that or you are sub-consciously thinking he is cheating on you ...

Answer 8

Usually nightmares will never turn true.