i want a boyfriend but i have a problem
ahh i just dont understand
no guys like me . and i have no friends but i've flirted with guys who have liked me but in the long run we never went out and i am really shy. its not that inm fat or short because im 5 ' 5" and weigh 110 pounds but i just dont onder stand. so anyhow, i had stopped worrying about getting a boyfriend until recently when i've noticed a lot of people at school walking wround holding hands, hugging, etc...and i suddenly wanted a boyfriend really bad. i've never had one before! i want to know what it's like to go out on dates, you know, stuff like that.my friends say i'm a "good-girl" or i appear to be one even though i'm not some goody-two-shoes. do boys not like "good girl" girlfriends? what's up with me? what could i do?btw, i'm up for changing who i am to get a boyfriend.]
am i happy or depressed?
i am a 16 year old girl . a jounor in high school. and i have never had a boyfriend . also i can be akward ,weird ,ugly , shy ,ect. so i would not know how to act when i finally get a boyfriend if that ever happends. and i belive thet everyone hates me..
help me please
anyone
and if u know me
ahhh just dont talk to me in person about it or mmake fun about me please
just help me
i am super depressed people please help
i just need advise but i dont show people this i hide all this inside me i neve let it show that im depressed or not liked or what eve i just want advise on this and i dont wat a boyfriend just to have one i want one so it can help me feal better about my self and show it on the outside and stop hideing all me fealings boddled up inside
just please give me some advise
2007-12-13 06:08:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everyone does not hate you - that's impossible, unless you deliberately go around doing hateful things to everyone. Be nice to people that you might like to hang out with - don't put any emotional investment in to it though - think of it as an experiment. When others start responding - just be cool, don't read too much in to it. Then keep interacting at a low key pace until some boy starts showing obvious interest. You could also slip them some cute notes at that point and see what happens. Don't worry about "boyfriend" until it's happened - the others may have been at it longer with more practice - and that's not always a good thing.
2007-12-13 06:19:44 · answer #1 · answered by tshnobodysfool 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I thought you said," I do not have Friends." Do not want what everyone else has or keeping up with the Joneses. You do not need someone else to make you feel good about yourself. Because by a harsh turn of events a breakup could happen. Then it would be down IN the dumps for you because you need someone to make you feel good. Do not be depressed about anytinhg.
2007-12-13 14:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by ^ Reckon ^ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear gentle probie, its that time of the year. You sound great and special and obviously smart by your over abundance of words. All the sweet and bitter feelings of love will come to you, you just need to be patient and enjoy your life, now this minute. Boys often don't express themselves to the good girls, mostly its shyness and fear also. But I expect you did well getting that off your chest.
2007-12-13 14:22:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to relax. Here's what u need to do, lighten up. Guys don't want grls that follow ever single rule or likes to tell on other people. Maybe u need to change your the way u are. Maybe your not happy with yourself. You should ask out the guys that u like because maybe that guy likes u but can't have the guts to ask u out.
2007-12-13 14:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mike L 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you remind me of my self so im going to give you the best advice i can if you have a good maale friend just hang out with them or see if a femail friend of your can help you out with a guy dont be shy about looking in difereant places
2007-12-13 14:13:33 · answer #5 · answered by Joey Barbrow 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Nicole,
Iam there will you not recogonise me, aim feeling depressed because you are not reciprocating me
Cheers
2007-12-14 09:31:58 · answer #6 · answered by Prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you stared to listen to your heart and not your mind?, Speak from the soal? Were all wierd. Those who aren't are in denial, and they just dont know themselves. meet someone here. start chattin. You'll know were to go from their. people lie tho. find a frend. And old frends make best frends.
2007-12-13 14:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
im pretty sure youll find sombody its just that maybe youre a little too shy
2007-12-13 14:12:40 · answer #8 · answered by moniquita 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient... you'll meet someone eventually.
2007-12-13 14:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by mick rogers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, way too much reading for my taste, sorry i couldn't help you out
2007-12-13 14:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by refuse2lose_2006 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋