what do you do when you are stuck between two guys that you really love can someone tell me what to do please?

Answer 1

It means neither guy is the right guy for you.

Answer 2

Really...you love them both? I think you need to examine what love really is. Perhaps you like and are infatuated with both, but love is a bit strong of a word to hold for two men at the same time.
Figure out which one really is best for you, has the same goal, treats you the nicest, has the best prospect for a future. If you don't know that much about them then it's ok to date them both for now to get to know them. It's perfectly ok to see more than one person at a time as long as the other parties know that they arent in an exclusive relationship with you.

Answer 3

Stuck?
What does stuck mean in your case? Are you dating one, or both? You have to explain this to us because it makes a big difference.
If it means you cannot decide which one to choose to date, then:

1. Ditch the twins. Find third guy. Most heartless solution.
2. Let time decide. Easiest and most cowardly solution..
3. Move. Hardest solution.
4. Schedule. If you are not dating any of them anyway, why dont you keep them both as friends.

Answer 4

When looking for a mate, you are invariably going to find good and bad qualities in a lot of people. Your not going to find somebody that is perfect.

Look at both men and write down the good and bad qualities of each. Include the tough stuff like

Can I be myself around this person w/o fear of rejection or abandonment?

Are we able to resolve arguments (even it means to agree to disagree)?

Do we have the same goals in life? If not, are you willing to create new goals for each of you to share?

Hopefully this will help you choose better. Bottom line is that the better mate will get along with you during the stressful times.

Answer 5

Bring in your family and friends into the mix. What do they think of these guys? Which do you feel most comfortable with. Which one is more interested in your interests-not just which one will go sky diving with you but which one is interested in hearing about the new stitch you learned in Spinning Class. And the big question-which one most closely matches your beliefs-religion, kids, finances, ecology, cat or dog, Ford or Chevy, Harley or crotch rocket-who's parents you visit on holidays-it's the little things we hold so dear that can break-up a relationship-which one is in it for the long run.

Answer 6

You can't love both of them, you are obviously too self centered to love either of them. When you love someone, you put their needs first and you would not hurt them. I am pretty sure that sleeping around with another would hurt both of them. Grow up, break up with both of them and keep away from them, get some therapy.

Answer 7

Make a list of the things you like most and least about each and compare/contrast. You'll be amazed at how that will help you to 'see' them better without letting your heart cloud things up!! Good luck.

Answer 8

Stop playing them....

Otherwise your guna find yourself alone.
I mean how would you feel knowing your man had two women in his life that he claims to be mad about??

Bet you would'nt like it!!! So do the honourable thing & make up your mind or you might find yourself in a horrid situation.

Good luck & i hope you the dumper rather than the dumpee!!
if you catch my drift......

Answer 9

do you mean who you want to choose- well try and think what it will be like if you cant see them again- and then you'll notice that one oft them has a big part of ur life then the other

Answer 10

go where your heart tells you to go but be as truthful as you can with the both of them because that makes it easier for you to deal with your final choice because they know how you totally feel about them and all that but it is a very hard situation to deal with believe me i know.....