He says that they are old, i believe him but why would he still need to have them up there? He didn't just have pictures of him kissing his ex but he also had pictures of two other ex's of his in suductive poses, don't quite know what to do, should i let it pass? Been with him for 10 months and never had a problem with him and other girls. Also he wants to go "offical" which we haven't yet because of issues with my ex, don't know what to do the subject arises and an arguement breaks out! if you need more info let me know!
2007-12-13 06:01:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well honey, if I were you I would not worry very much about ex's. Everyone has them and they all have luggage! Think of it this was.....as long as he comes home to you everynight then it should be ok. It has only been months, take it slow. What is the big rush to be "official"? And if you are not "official" yet anyways, who cares about the pictures?
Take it a day at a time. Since there have not been issues with other girls in the past then there should not be a reason for you not to trust him.
2007-12-13 06:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Carla P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should worry about it. He obviously hasn't gotten over her completely, so in my opinion talk to him politely about it. Also don't seem aggressive or angry because it is probably just as hard on him. A girlfriend should not only be a girlfriend but a best friend too. Make him feel like its an open subject and he will eventually get over her. So don't feel sad about it because it already seems like hes gotten rid of some stuff that means a lot to him for you to start off so don't kid yourself. You definitely are a important person to him.
2016-05-23 09:50:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have pictures on my Exes on my computer. I don't think it's an issue with you, or anything like that.
I don't take the time to go through and delete the pictures on my computer unless I'm already in that folder. If I don't have a purpose to be in that folder, I won't go there.
Answer: Just let it go. Trust him, and have a good time with him.
2007-12-13 06:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by A Firefighter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like keeping photos of women on their computers. The question is does he want to get back with his ex? No hurry to make it 'official', especially if he is still strongly attached to his ex. Just play it cool and keep your eyes and ears open. If he isn't being frank with you than you can take it from there.
2007-12-13 06:07:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are old and they don't mean anything to him, he should be willing to delete them. Have you asked him to do that? Just explain that it makes you uncomfortable to know he still has them and ask him to get rid of them. If he refuses, then you know you have a bigger issue to deal with. If he does, then just drop the subject. Good luck!
2007-12-13 06:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to delete it because it feels like maybe he still has an attachment if he says no ask why.Say if you really want to be with me you'd just do this.Please it's not that big of a deal.If he says yes thank hm and tell him it was really sweet to do that for you.
2007-12-13 06:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by ariellebelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two have some trust issues.
You might want to address those issues before going "official".
2007-12-13 06:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Stuart 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I still have pics of my exes on my computer... I chalk it up to laziness. Let it slide. And don't force him to delete them all... it's just a stupid argument waiting to happen.
2007-12-13 06:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by marisa_g1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a dude,
he doesnt delete stuff. hes too lazy
if youve been together 10 months and he wants to make it offical, obviously nothing going on there.
2007-12-13 06:05:06 · answer #9 · answered by Alexxxxxx 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell him get rid of them, or you're outta there! I made my boyfriend do that.. he forgot he had them, I knew because we were friends when he was with her and I remembered him talking about them, so I told him to get rid of them. He did without a thought
2007-12-13 06:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by cz73 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋