he is always around me and hugs me and grabs my butt and boobs and wants hugs and has told me he loves me, all my friends say he fancies because he always flirts with me and because he doesn't do it to anyone else but when someone asked him he said i was a ugly but my mate said he is going to say that because he doesn't want people to know he fancies me and shes known him for ages and this is how he flirts with girls. does he fancy me?
2007-12-13 05:43:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like he just wants to touch your body and you let him.
2007-12-13 06:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be honest with you because it might save you a painful lesson. It seems to me like he thinks you're a sl ut. STOP letting him get free grabs of your body, otherwise all his friends will be coming to you when they fancy a squeeze.
If he does think you’re a slapper, I can tell you now that men don't fanny slappers they just want to sleep with them.
Have you shown the real you to him, you know the snappy you at home with the family, the silly you with the mates, the good, bad and ugly you; because if you haven't, who exactly does he love?
I don't want to rain on your parade, but always use you head in love, if you do a little bit of research about the human body, you'll discover that’s where the real magic is
2007-12-13 06:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by kosslyn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, do you MIND him grabbing at you like you're a piece of meat?
He probably fancies you because you have boobs and a butt. You let him get away with this behaviour - good enough reason for him to say 'nice' things to you, because you'll keep letting him do it.
If he tells other people he thinks you're ugly, I can't see how you can take him, or anything he says, seriously.
2007-12-13 05:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by sparklebunny_69 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am assuming you are a teenager and so is this boy. It sounds like he has hit a stage some of male friends experienced in their teens known as 'super-ego tI'me'. By grabbing you and calling you names, he obviously has no respect so im surprised you are not feeling violated and asking for advice on his to get rid of him.
Of course, boys being boys there is nothing to be done about this behaviour in the present and is properly how he feels is the correct way to express his feelings. I would, from what i have read, that he has indeed taking a liking in you and you are one of his interests.
If you like this boy back (Lord help you), then i highly recommend you should give him a little pep talk about respect and kindly ask him not to invade you privacy as much with the grabbing, unless of course you enjoy this behaviour.
You should be treated with respect and he obviously has none for you, and by the likes of it, any other females. Ditch this tool.
Best of luck
2007-12-13 05:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might fancy you but what are you letting him grab your butt and boobs for. I dont think you are very old for putting up with this behaviour.Tell him to grow up or back off!
2007-12-13 05:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by little devil 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think hes just being a prat who doesnt respect you as a person, fancy or not people just cant go around doing them kinda things !
What ever happened to the art of conversation !
Maybe try talking to him on his own, without the groping and see howw the land lies ?
2007-12-13 05:50:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he cannot face himself and his feelings and calls you names like that then he is no good to you,get an open and genuine lad and stop this groper from pawing you,it only cheapens you in the eyes of other lads,your body belongs to you not him,tell him to buy a rubber pump up person.
2007-12-13 05:50:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the guy gal!! He's taking advantage of you! Don't you just get it?
Or you just want your boobs and butt caressed? Jeez what a sleezball!! Use your head will you!
2007-12-13 08:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter. You're letting him treat you like a piece of meat. Have a bit of dignity, girl. If they feel they can treat you like meat, they will. If he really liked and respected you, he'd have asked you out by now. Learn to make him keep his distance, and learn to respect yourself.
2007-12-13 12:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you should be more concerned with the question "does he have any respect for me?", "do i have any respect for myself?" why are you letting someone that you are not dating touch you where only the person most intimate with you should touch? this guy sounds like he has problems. find someone better for you who will respect you.
2007-12-13 05:51:23 · answer #10 · answered by adelaide 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋