2007-12-13 05:40:06 · 16 answers · asked by lovebird 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I cheated before we were engaged or I even realized he wasn't just wasting my time. I told him about my crush because I felt bad keeping it to myself. I haven't done anything wrong...I can't control my feelings. I get bored in relationships and my bf is very overweight and me, I work out all the time and try to look nice. I just want him to try harder to impress me and be more romantic because men are always tempting me.
2007-12-13 06:08:25 · update #1
It's obvious he loves you and is very forgiving. Now that you know this stop cheating or cut off the engagement. You're a lucky woman and if you don't get yourself together you will soon loose him.
2007-12-13 05:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by tc22 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the questions should be why are you with him? If you don't want to be with this man and this man only do him a favor and leave him alone. Try to think about it like this when you cheat on a significant other it will come back to you when you least expect it. For example say you break up with this guy and a few months, years whatever you find the man of your dreams he proposes then right before the wedding BAM you find out he has slept with someone else.
2007-12-13 05:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by Devendra Lover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How sad that you think you will motivate him to be more attentive and lose weight by telling him that you have a crush on someone else and that you cheated.
You have a crush on someone else because you aren't happy in your relationship and you aren't 'in love' anymore. Other men aren't tempting you, it's something within you that allowing you to consider the temptation.
Reading material to consider:
Relationship Rescue, Phil McGraw
Five Love Langages, Gary Chapman
2007-12-13 06:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously he loves you and wants to give you another chance.... but you seem like you could care less... SO, why dont you stop hurting the guy and just break up with your fiance and move on... because stay with your fiance while having feelings for another man is not fair to your fiance.
2007-12-13 05:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking he has done the same, but isn't going to tell you. If you have a crush on another man and call the one you are with your finance - what does fiance mean to you?
2007-12-13 05:47:33 · answer #5 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The real question is why are you with him? It doesnt sound like you want to be with him anymore, just end it with him, he could really love you and think you will change or he could be insecure and not willing to find someone else. Do you want to be with him? thats what you should be figuring out! Good luck!
2007-12-13 05:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Susan F 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think the question is--why are you with him?
If you've cheated, and have a crush on another man now, do you really think you're ready to commit to one man for life?
Be honest with yourself and with him.
2007-12-13 05:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by florafall 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because he apparently forgives you, and loves you. The question is, why are you engaged to be married to him if you're still looking around?
2007-12-13 05:43:33 · answer #8 · answered by justme 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because he has low self-esteem and he doesn't feel like he's good enough to get someone better than a sleezy, cheating person like yourself.
2007-12-13 05:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by ►solo 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
maybe he doesn't realize that you could care less about his feelings..don't worry, he'll wake up and smell the coffee soon
OR
he could've cheated on you too, and is letting u get even
2007-12-13 05:46:08 · answer #10 · answered by it's_love 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋