Dealing with Depression?

Question

Guys i really need your help. Here is what's going on. My boyfriend just came back from visiting his family in cuba. he is extremely depressed and now he wants to go live over there. my biyfriend and i , dont live together we lie seperate. everytime i call he is sad and barely wants to talk, sometimes he hurts my feelings in the way. I need help. how can i help him. I think that his idea of goin back to cuab is transitory, its only because he is depressed but maybe am wrong. can anyone please help me to help him.

if he leaves he cant come come back. no he doesnt have anybody in cuba. we already talk about it nd he told me he didnt it. i do think am pushing him but is just because i dont like seeing him sad i want to get all that sadness away from him. i have tried getting him happy but its like he wants to be drepressed... i've told him dat he needs to be strong and going back to cuba is really no help for his family. also his mom called me nd she wants me to help her.

Answer 1

Homeopathic Remedies for Anxiety / Panic Attacks / Stress / Depression(Bereavment) / Mood Swings (Totally safe, without any side effects or complications of any sort) :-

ANXIETY / PANIC ATTACKS & STRESS :-

Sudden with restlessness and fear of death, Panic Attacks, Aconite 30X or 200X,1/2 hourly (3 Doses)

Prolonged with periodic and panic attacks Arsenic Alb.200X, 4 hourly (3 Doses)

With fainting spells; profuse sweating; worse in the morning Sulphur 30X or 200X 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Makes patient walk fast; due to anticipation Argentum Nit 200X, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Worse lying in bed and closing the eyes Carbo Veg 30X or 200X, 4 hourly (6 Doses)

Anxiety aggravated by upward or downward motion; going in an elevator; worse till 11 P.M, Borax 200X or 1M, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxious about business even when seriously ill Bryonia Alba 200X 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Full of apprehensions in the evening Causticum 200X, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety and fears in the evening with restlessness and palpitation Calcarea Carb.200X or 1M, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety worse while lying still. Sad music ameliorates the complaints Manganum Acet 200X 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety due to fright, fear,exciting news; stage fright; worse while appearing for examination or interview etc Gelsemium 30X or 200X 3 hourly (6 Doses)

Mood Swings, Anxiety due to grief or shock in the subconscious mind Ignatia 200X or 1M, 3 hourly (3 Doses)

Anxiety; better after eating Anacardium Or 30X, 4 hourly.

DEPRESSION & GRIEF(Bereavement) :-

Severe shock due to sudden death of loved ones; restlessness, anxiety and fear Aconite 200X. 10 min (3 Doses)

Prolonged mournings; cannot overcome the loss of loved ones and/or Mood Swings. Ignatia 1M or 10M, 6 hourly (3 Doses)

When the grief is in the conscious mind; patient weeps; does not like sympathy Natrum Mur.200X or 1M, 6 hourly (3 Doses)

For chronic grief and indignation Staphysagria 200X or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)

Depression with suicidal thoughts feeling of worthlessness, Aurum Met 30X, three times a day half hour before meals.


Take the remedy which is similar to your symptoms. No side effects or complications if taken as directed, please do not exceed the given dosage and under any circumstances do not try to mix any remedies and avoid Chocolates, Mints, Coffee, Red Meat, Alcoholic and Carbonated drinks, Spicy Rich Food while taking any Homeopathic remedies, and keep the medicines away from direct sunlight, heat strong smells and perfumes and do not store them in the fridge.
Curing without any side effects or Complications Thats the Beauty of Homeopathic Medicine (Cures Par Excellence)

Take Care and God Bless you.

Answer 2

Go an evening walk with him and TALK!!!!! open up to each other..... make him sure about what you feel for him & you'll be there for whatever happens & ask him what is bothering him ok dont push it too much. Dont make him feel like trapped or something trust me Guys do think girls are that sort! so just act cool but be tender & understanding Far or near whats important in any kind of relationship is an open & easy communication if he is sad or what just talk talk talk!! Do something to make him happy , dress well, & feel beautiful trust me all this counts, have fun with each other, but keep your dignity, respect yourself & be confidant make him feel ease & comfort with you. Dont get mad & control your emotions at least dont show it.... just let it go... He'll confess if you win his trust ....

Im sorry to say but just make sure he dont have someone out there in cuba.....
Best of luck!!

Answer 3

Hello, I can't help but wonder if there is more to this story. Like WHY is he so depressed? Is his family not doing well, do they need his help, or does he just miss them? In any case, I have to ask you - Why not let him go and figure out if being home is where he really wants to be? He can always come back. Sometimes when you don't take the steps to quell your wondering.... he may be like this for a while.

On another note.... he may just need to be left alone to figure this out for himself. Perhaps he isnt looking for your help. Didnt want to be harsh.... but real.

Hope this helps!

Answer 4

Dear Something happened while he was there. If he will not talk to you and is being mean to you, you probably should just be there when he needs you. Just don't push him to hard. You are right he probably will get over it in time. Good luck and god bless he insist on going back be supportive and understanding. It is all you can do. Good luck and God bless you and him. Sugar

Answer 5

Talk with him about what is on his mind and let him do most of the talking.