guys. . . this is a question for you.?

Question

what do you like in a girl?
what can a girl do to get your attention.

& please dont be immature when answering this question.

Answer 1

I like a girl who has class. Someone with big beautiful eyes and a great smile. Personality is important, but only when I want a serious relationship. Either way, I want someone who matches my interests, or at least counterbalances them with those of her own. Be unique- that will stand out.
Do you know how to cook? I love food, as do most men.
I don't like those little trashy tramps who flaunt their asses just to get some attention. Wait- I do like looking at some of them- but I wouldn't want a relationship with a tramp, unless she wanted a backhand to the face every once in a while.

Answer 2

I've always been interested in women that were not afraid to be themselves. It doesn't matter how it is that you may perceive yourself as long as you are honest and open about who you are, how you feel about things and what it is that you like and dislike. Honest open communication is what makes relationships last in the long run anyway.

Beauty is only skin deep as they say. My ex wife is a very attractive woman. I still find myself wanting to look at her when I see her but on top of all our other problems she was a boring conversationalist. It was very rare the we would have a conversation about anything other then her work. She was also very uninterested in just about anything that excited me.

There always has to be some kind of physical attraction that draws you to another person but without the mental stimulation it is high unlikely that a relationship would last that long. You can only spend so much time in bed.

Answer 3

Physical: Small arms (from the elbow up to the shoulders), skinny/sexy legs and flat stomach, cute (Keep in mind that I have a different perception of what "cute" is).

Personality: Smiles a lot, outgoing, gets along pretty well with my family, hardworking, funny, smart, loves watching movies and is extremely loyal and supportive (READ: Extreme)

How to get my attention:

1. Wave your hair (a slow-motion effect for me)
2. Looks at me then smiles
3. Laughs with friends (or whoever she's with) then steals a glance
4. Blinking
5. Doing something sexy but not prostitute-esque (like elevating one foot or biting her pen then looks at me)

Answer 4

You really think any guy is mature when we consider women (AKA girls)? WOW!! I like you already. LOL
Dressing well in a manner that complements you and acting appropriately for the situation will go a long ways towards making one attractive. Also, being able to carry on an intelligent two way conversation helps after the initial physical attraction.

Answer 5

What do I like in a woman?

Women are beautiful. Generally speaking, women work hard to present themselves well, and I assure you the effort is appreciated. A woman who works hard to look good will always catch the eye of the men around her. This is partially reflected in one's physique, but not totally. A gym rat with the body of a Greek goddess who dresses poorly will not do as well as a woman who dresses well but who isn't exactly swimsuit model material, if you catch my meaning.

Beyond being beautiful, women are pleasant. Perhaps it's the softness of femininity or simply the training in emotional dexterity that we guys hardly ever seem to learn, but I find that women generally present a softer and less-threatening demeanor that is nice to be around. A woman who is friendly, pleasant and good in conversation is approachable and will be more likely to entice, rather than scare away, a man who finds her attractive.

Beyond being pleasant and attractive, women attract men by having interests in common with them. In times gone by, women may have been mere decorations on a man's arm to be escorted to one event or another. Nowadays, obviously that's no longer true. Men and women are equals in relationships. They are activity partners, confidants and sounding boards for ideas of all sorts. I would not be able to be in a serious relationship with a woman with whom I had little in common. And, of course, one can only talk about the weather for so long.

Obviously, there's overt acts of sexual enticement that help women get noticed by men. Wearing sexier (but not slutty - be careful) clothes around someone you're interested in will help to get noticed. Flirting with guys is a great way for women to attract their attention. A disarming smile, casual touching, direct eye contact while in close proximity - all these things will tend to show a guy you're interested. Hopefully, these flirtations will work, and if the guy is not terribly obtuse, they will. Having said that, I can say I've been guilty of missing signs of interest from a woman, and you know sometimes a guy just needs to be hit over the head with what you're thinking. Simply go up to him and tell him you're interested in getting to know him better. Men appreciate honesty and simplicity, and the direct approach is something I can personally say I would respect.

I'm not sure this helps, but I hope it does.

Answer 6

The best thing that will get my attention is for a girl to talk to me. That doesn't necessarily mean that I will like her. But that's the best way for a girl to determine whether there's a chance between us.

Answer 7

The first thing that catches me are pretty eyes
next would have to be a sense of humor
last I like a girl that's not easy plays hard to get.

I like innocent flirting with some teasing

Answer 8

Well first off she's gota have a pair off tities and a firm round *** lol she must then be pleasant kind and have a good nature about her being able to talk to a man and she has to be smart,Thats my kind of girl,To get my attention she would have to look over at me or feel confortable around me

Answer 9

Looks are not the most important to me. Don't get me wrong she can't look like Shrek. I like a girl that is not stuck on herself. Shows confidence in the way she acts and looks. I like that she would have goals.

To get my attention; invite me to a party or slip me her phone number. General flirting always works too as long as its not annoying.

Answer 10

I look for pretty looking girls wearing heavenly and innocent smile.It hardly matters whether she is really innocent or not.I also like one having some amount of brains inside her top part(which is roundish).I love all American ones more than the rest , provided she is free in her outlook.