Reasons for cheating-when you are in love?

Question

If you have cheated what made you do it?
If you are considering cheating what are your reasons?

Answer 1

Most people cheat because they are easily influenced, of weak character, bored, or malicious.

Answer 2

I dont really think there is an excuse that allows cheating weather you are in love or not. Either way it hurts your partner and the respect and trust is gone. The relationship no longer would be pure, N i think thats one of the most important things in a relationship.
But People tend to feel lonley if the partner does not give as much attention and affection, and they rely on some1 else for that(it could be either lust or love)
Thats why I always say when you with some1 u take care of them and make sure they are happy talking n letting eachother know how you feel makes everything way better

Answer 3

If you really love someone I mean really love someone you don't cheat.

If you're a girl - the smell of a another man, a man that isn't your partner should repulse you. Make you queasy. That's how I feel.

Reasons people cheat and why people consider cheating? I guess cause it might make them feel better if they found out their partner "stepped out", like making things even. But that never helps.

Another reason might be they aren't in love. I guess that's it.

MERRY CHRISTMAS!

Answer 4

I'm considering cheating because my partner has no desire to have sex, and has been unwilling to even try for the last 8 months.
That's right, we've been a couple for 9 months, and although we had a great physical relationship for the first month, we haven't done ANYTHING since mid April.
My partner has a mental disorder and a heart problem, and his many medications cause a loss of sexual desire and function.
I stay with him because I love him, he loves me, and he is as close to a soulmate as I'll ever find. But he can't and won't satisfy me sexually, so I am considering looking elsewhere to fullfill my needs.

Answer 5

I would consider cheating and here is why. every girl has different qualities that I like about them. So one girl might have a certain personality I like and another one might have beautiful eyes. it's kind of hard to explain what I'm trying to say but I like a variety and would definitely consider cheating.

Answer 6

I think most people call them "reasons" for cheating .But I think they are really excuses to make themselves feel better cuz they have cheated. If you really love someone you wouldnt want to hurt them by cheating on them.

Answer 7

people who are inlove should not cheat at all or doesnt entertain the mere thought of it, because how can one person say that she/he is truly inlove when at the back of her/his mind, the idea of cheating is present.
Some people cheat because they are not contented yet, if they learn how to accept whatever they have at present, to cheat will never get into their minds. unfortunately, some individuals look for a more thrilling, adventurous, goodlooking new partner....but in the end, they will realize that they have chosen someone less...than their partner. sad but true! human nature, i guess, one who cheats lacks acceptance and contentment.

Answer 8

If you are in love...you dont cheat

I cheated once and felt guilty but ended the relationship because I knew that it was over by me doing that..

Mine was bred out of complete insecurity and low self esteem...I felt the need for someone else to do the things that were missing for me...someone to perk me up and take away the pain I suppose

Answer 9

You live in a warm, cozy home with good companies but when they stopped talking or focusing on you, you looked up and noticed a beautiful scenery outside the window, so you want to get out to take a look.

Answer 10

I am considering cheating because my husband does not want to touch me. Although I love him and he loves me, I am going to have my needs met elsewhere!!(maybe he is too!!)

Answer 11

Dont cheat...it hurts the other person sooo bad!! i've been cheated on! It was aweful!