Is there such a thing as a regional attractive quality?

Question

When I go back to my hometown the women there seem to approach me more. When I come back to the place I live, I feel like the women here don't click with me. It's like the women up here look for or are attracted to a different type of man. Plus I think I might be more attracted to the women back home. Or I am just frustrated with the women up here and am slowly turning it into a "well, the women up here are just frigid." thing. I don't know. Have any transplants experienced this?

Answer 1

This gets discussed a lot on another forum I visit. Someone said they get hit on a lot when on vacation or on a business trip. Someone else said he is approached more often on the west coast than he is on the east coast.

It could be the vibes you are sending out. When you go home, you may be more relaxed and seem more approachable. Or it could be just a general attitude toward life. If you have an easy going laid back kind of outlook and you work in a place where everyone is hyper gogogogo, then they may perceive you as lazy and aimless when what they want is someone assertive and goal oriented---doesn't mean you can't be laid back and goal oriented, it just means that you aren't being seen that way. Or if where you work is the laid back and relaxed and you are the assertive and goal oriented guy--you could be perceived as being a workaholic who never stops to have fun.

So yes, there are such things a regional attractive qualities--both physical and personality wise.

I think the physical attractiveness qualities are more of a cultural thing rather than a regional thing if you are in the same country. But traveling to different countries you will find that there are regional standards of beauty/attractiveness for both physical and personality.

one other note: If "everyone" is turning you down. Take a hard look at yourself and see why that is. It could be something that you need to change in yourself OR it could be that you are hitting on the wrong people OR at the wrong time.

Answer 2

All frigid. Represent 10% of women here. No wonder you are so "sucesful". Who and why would avarage women, let alone sensitive and passionate (and 50% of women are like that), feel welcome with you? But that is exactly what you wanted, right? Your own safety with your own little comfort. Who cares about the reality when you are in such a beautiful little home? All the rest of us are just stupid fools, possesed with the devil, only your kind of women are the right ones, in control, full of knowledge about themselves, ready to teach the rest of us who we are and how to behave.