provided for by their guys(husbands)...men shouldnt put them in a situation where they are made to work for the sake of money..I have completely lost motivation....i used to be really good at studies before...he feels guilty because he thinks that his idea has gotten into me...that is the truth but i keep denying it and tell him that the subjects r way too difficult for me...i got placed in acceture based on my previous performance but the last time i flunked in 6 whole theory papers(6 out of 6..lol) and i seem to be cool about it...my university exams are going on and i didnt even write the second one
please help...i dont want to keep writing and writing all these papers..i just want to get them over with
2007-12-13 01:21:03 · 6 answers · asked by Pisces 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is my best friend for the last 6 yrs..i know him inside out..and i have always known he held this particular view and i used to argue with him over it for the sake of whichever girl he is going to end up with...but for the last one year ive been getting really really close with him and hence my change
2007-12-13 01:37:06 · update #1
I need to be honest with you. That is what i would want my friends to be. This has nothing to do with the guy that you like.
Education is so important, not just for the degree or the resume.. but because education puts you in an area that allows you to succeed, to have no bounds, and to forever better yourself and be succesful!
If your excuse is that husbands are supposed to provide for their wives.. i understand all of that.. but don't you want your future husband to be proud of you and your accomplishments? C'mon girl! Do it cause you can.. :-)
You are procrastinating and being lazy... i'm sorry but it's true. Keep at it! Seek help if you need it.. don't be afraid to ask. Go to class. Finals are hard.. i know. but it's worth it and you are only going to regret not doing it later on. Don't be cool about failure. DO THIS FOR YOU! Knuckle down. I'm cheering for you!
2007-12-13 01:38:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! All that at 20?! I'm 18 and I desire that I get founded that early. Think approximately what you experience doing, then move there or do this. Single females do the equal factor. You could get fortunate. To be thoroughly sincere we've got the equal perspectives on matters (however I have a constant). Let persons get to understand you. Be constructive, however information. The first-rate solution to get a ladies concentration is to both supplement her or aid her. Look for a woman at paintings. Offer a few recommendation or anything. Tell her that she appears well while she walks within the door. Be honest now not cocky or seductive. Any woman could believe fortunate to have you ever. I could love a man with cash and an angle like yours. Mine is near however hasn't grown as much as meet his age but. lol
2016-09-05 11:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loosing a chance at education and self worth over a man... WOW. u are sabotaging yourself on purpose.
And he feels bad about his idea getting to you.. PLEASE.. thats probably what he wants... to be able to manipulate you...to eventually be able to CONTROL you to the point where you have to depend on him so much that you cannot get out of the relationship.
If you were smart and played your cards right, you'd get thet education FOR YOU, and at the same time get a man to take care of you.. who says you cant have best of both worlds! If the relationship doesnt work .. you still have your education... and selfworth and a job to self sustain.
2007-12-13 01:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by Hunney4Bs 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't ever depend on someone else to take care of you. Study and study hard. If this guy likes you he will come around.
2007-12-13 01:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by TD R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should speak with those women who have been divorced, or lost their supporting husbands.
Having to go to work and support themselves and/or children.
Many are cleaning hotel rooms. OK, if you don't mind that.
2007-12-13 01:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by ed 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Relent. Tell him you want him to take care of you. No shame in it. I been doing it for years!
2007-12-13 01:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by stygean666 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋