I haven't had a girlfriend for a while. Girls want to go out with these hot guys that tell disgusting jokes. I think I'm pretty good boyfriend material: I'm smart, get pretty good grades, not half bad looking, and I actually have manners, unlike all those other guys. Even with all this, I don't get anything more than best friends.
What do girls like and want in a guy?
2007-12-13 00:45:53 · 39 answers · asked by Blake 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I remember when I was dating years ago. At first I was attracted to bad boys, but as I got older I got smarter and I married a computer geek. The thing was when I was dating I was quiet and shy and if the guy was also quiet and shy It didn't go anywhere. I needed someone that can talk and that helped me talk. I think girls want someone they can talk to and that makes them feel good about themselves also they should be attracted to them. So have some confidence and go out there and talk to them. You never know if you don't try.
2007-12-13 01:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by Golf Chick 3 · 17⤊ 2⤋
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2016-12-25 22:55:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14
Girls don't exactly care if a guy has great looks cause if a guy is sweet to a girl and shows affection to her in public, while the what you call "hot guys" barely pay attention to the girl besides for sexual reasons, a girl rather have the nice guy.
- A guess sometimes the main reasons girls go for the popular guys is because they have confedence in them selves. You have no idea how confedence is so attractive to girls. Like some popular guys are average looking but they maybe funny as **** and they imbrace that.
-Girls do like a guy that is fit, im not saying you have to have six pack abs, but have something that you can work with.
-But really some girls may go off on appearance at first, but to be honest they all ways fall for the nicer guy, but make sure you have conference because it makes her think of you as independent and it also will boost her confidence to.
2015-03-25 17:04:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2015-08-18 05:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by Robbin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you all want to know what the truth is I am the ladies man I hade girls that liked me so much and I was a good person when I met a girl some guys are okay to friends it just depends on something that a girl wants everyday sometimes when a girl thinks about a guy when a girl comes with a guy its called friendship and that's the thing and this is a idea to let everbody know on this there are two things
number one be nice to a girl number two respect a girl and number three don't tell lies to the girl
and remember to tell the truth and always keep the truth and no lies
2014-04-01 23:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by Joe 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By the details u are giving, Im guessing ur still in school. Girls going out w/ the "hot guy" is a fad every girl goes through. Later girls start to learn what is actual boyfriend material. Things I look for in a guy; 1st is physical attraction, 2nd personality, 3rd Chemistry. Then after I start looking for the real important ones, like honesty etc... Personality over rules all, but i was just being realistic w/ the order of what i look for... Every girl looks for different things in a guy, but the basics every girl wants is to be treated w/ respect and for a guy to be honest and loyal. But then what some girls want and what they go for are 2 different things
2007-12-13 01:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 6⤊ 0⤋
To be truthful, I've only liked one boy so far. But he's really funny. I like personality best in boys- ones that are fun to be around and have a lot in common with you. But I know some of my friends go for looks or smartness. It really depends on the girl. Just be yourself and the right girl will fall for you.
2015-08-16 07:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by Acacia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me I like guys that are smart but not REALLY REALLY smart as I am smart but not that smart. They HAVE to be funny but I hate it when they take it too far! I would like then to be good looking and if you have a six pack then that would help lots!!
Some girls would like a guy with a lot of money but tbh I couldn't care less....
A girl likes it when a guy has a job because they know they can work for it!! And that proves to her you might do the same for her.
Be caring, manners, not embarrassing, everything like that really!! :)
Hope I helped and hope this made any sense! :) x
2014-03-11 04:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks wise, girls tend to go for guys that have 'quiffs' I know that sounds weird but just look at the likes of One Direction or Justin Bieber. I know you probably think they're 'gay' but alot of girls like them. Also a guy thats always smiling is so nice.
Don't be a dick. Girls hate it when guys are rude to them around their friends or just in general. Lot's of teenage guys hate manners and being polite but most girls I know find it attractive.
Smell nice! This is simple but effective, get a good aftershave or something.
Be funny! But don't try to hard.
Don't dress like a fag. Although you probably think its cool girls hate it when guys wear pants half way round their bum.
2014-03-15 22:15:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on your age group. Younger girls/women generally go for BAD guys. And I mean that are usually bad for them. As we get older, we change our idea of a man or woman. I like men that have a humor, honest with me, nice, and good looking. You may be interested in the wrong girls. But don't change YOU for some girl. It won't work and you won't be happy.
2007-12-13 00:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Angie 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy, single and not really looking for that special one just yet. I have to say if it is looks that a girl wants in a guy and intellect as well then what happens when he get old and the looks fade away and the mind starts to loose thought will you still love the man. To me it all about the heart. On both sides of the relationship. Many say I want him or her got to funny entertaining my needs and give me my hearts desires. What happens if every man don't give you your heart's desire? Will you leave him for another. I find that when people enter in a relationship they think, what can I get from it that will keep me in the relationship? Well you keep thinking that and you will be single all your life never happy, never found the perfect mate. One thing people forget is, what about what can I give to the relationship to make it happen. You love him, he love you back, you care for him, he will return it back to you. You trust him he will trust you and you tell the truth he will.
2014-04-12 18:32:26 · answer #11 · answered by K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋