Im 29, 30 soon and i have a huge crush on one of my friends little sister. The thing is she is only 21, is that too much of a difference? I have noticed her maturing into a young woman the last few years, she is so beautiful and we always have a chat and a laugh when im over there, i dont think my mate likes it. I told him ages ago i fancy her and he didnt mind! The thing is she has always had a boyfriend but she split with the last one 3 months ago and told me last week that she's bored of being single now n wants a man! She also said she likes older guys than her, she said atleast 5 yrs! She 'joked' what am i getting her for christmas? Ive bought her perfume she mentioned she likes n am thinking of putting my mobile number on the xmas card to her asking her does she fancy coming out for a drink with me to search for mistletoe?! What do you think, i adore her! Im not taking advantage am i? I split wiv my ex 6months ago! Women my age are so serious!
2007-12-12 19:22:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You aren't too old for her, age doesn't really matter if both parties are legal and into it. That is a cute way to give her your number, just be careful since she is the little sister of a friend.
If she is really looking for an older man then go ahead, give it a shot. But you mentioned that her brother doesn't like it when you guys flirt, so prepare for some problems there. You might wanna tell her bro that you like her and are going to give it a shot with her.
Good luck!
2007-12-12 19:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by Harley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is not too much of an age gap. Give her the perfume, give her your mobile number, but why not ask her out for a drink or whatever in person? She's an adult, she doesn't need her brother's permission! Go for it, and all the best. hope this helps.
2007-12-12 19:31:59 · answer #2 · answered by SKCave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man now look age is just a number my fiancee is 22 and im 29, also go for it let her know how you feel, the give her your mobile # ,or ask her out for a nice dinner and moive . good luck keep us updated
2007-12-12 19:32:15 · answer #3 · answered by bigterrellowensfaninva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! If you can't say it at Christmas, when can you eh? I really like the mistletoe line. It's cute. Give her the present!!! Good luck.
2007-12-12 19:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the age gap is pretty big. Also, your friend probably won't appreciate you trying to date his little sister. I think you should date elsewhere.
P.S. I'm not sure what you mean by "serious"...
2007-12-12 19:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. age doesn't matter. i am also 21 and my boyfriend is 30. if you like each other go for it, you never know what can develop if you never ask her out.
2007-12-12 19:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by ʜeʟʟӧ_ᴅөll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong about pursuing her, im 24 and my husband is 32 (we just got married this month) I mean we get along fine, i do believe its your chance to finally get together with her, go for it.
2007-12-12 19:31:34 · answer #7 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If she's really interested cool, if not you are in the same place you are now. So you have no downside.
2007-12-12 19:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by Jiberish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww you are so sweet!!
i think it will totally work out :) you arent too old for her, thats just perfect :)
2007-12-12 19:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋