Hi everyone, I have a confession problem now, hope you guys can help me out. I knew this guy through some co-workers and he asked me to hang out last weekend. After talking to him, I realized that we were both orginally from California and our families actually live in the same city (Tustin,CA).We went to movies on Sunday and then he suggested grabbing some food and heading to his apartment to eat.So we spent time at his apartment and watched TV until after dinner. The next day he texted me and said that he had fun and thanked me for coming out. I texted him to say thank him, too.Two days later I realized that I really like him and I decided to email him to say hi. At the end of the email I wrote: "Btw I was thinking how can you be living in So Calif and also live in Tustin city, do you know what this tells us?" I was trying to imply that it was such a coincidence that we were both from the same place, indirectly telling him that I like him..but he never responded back..what do I do!!?
2007-12-12 19:12:53 · 3 answers · asked by Citychick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't really get to see him at work but we are always on emails tho. We've been emailing each other every now and then (over the past two weeks) But I guess he doesn't know what to say and also that he is leaving for another city in a month (getting a transfer) so I don't know if that could be one issue. One more thing, when we were at his apartment, we talked about his other friends last time we met (when I first met him) and he was also saying that if I was interested in his friends, he could introduce them to me....this is so confusing. I did sort of feel like we were on a date last weekend but maybe he doesn't think that way. Can anyone write me something that I can write back to him in order to get him writing me back again? I really miss the time we were emailing each other back and forth. Seems like it is not the same anymore and we might not even be friends. Thank you guys for your help! It means a lot to me.
2007-12-12 19:53:43 · update #1
Just give him some more time, he might be trying to play it cool and not write back right away so he doesnt seem needy or deperate. Guys have that 3 day rule and what not. Give him a few more days and see if he responds? Do you see him at work? If you do, just talk to him there too, see how he reacts. Maybe he is just busy and wants to wait a few days to write you back! good luck!
2007-12-12 19:17:59 · answer #1 · answered by Susan F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that message wasn't an "i like you".
you need to be more direct ask him out again or just tell him that you think you guys have a lot in common and would like to hang out some more. just stating that it's cool that you lived in the same place doesn't indicate that you like someone, that is so far off of the grid to a guy that he'd never get it.
2007-12-12 19:19:36 · answer #2 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think he didnt get you......It no where has "I like you" in it...hahaha
2007-12-12 19:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋