we started off as best friends and dating almost a year later.... and i love him to death... hes my life.. like seriously.. im with him everyday.... but theres some thingss we dont agree on.. like hewants to be able to go to a strip club sometimess when were older, and a club he wanted t o go to that had girls gone wild at it not too long ago, and he comments some chicks pics saying their hot... im the jealous type..... is it me & my immaturity or is it not right?? hes a guy i know but i dont know just help me lol
2007-12-12 15:31:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been dating for 8 months... hes 18 and im 16
2007-12-12 15:31:28 · update #1
It's not Bad that you feel that way,but you do need to wait until your a few years older to do anything about it,feelings change,and your at the age where you just might meet someone that you love a lot more,AND that loves you a lot more and dosen't need to go to clubs to get turned on,of course the guy you care about now might out grow that in a few years,THATS why you need to wait until you get older,so you know your not making a mistake with him,your the lady here and would get hurt the most,so good luck,and take care.!!!!
2007-12-12 22:00:41 · answer #1 · answered by Butch46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...
First you're very young.
I am 25 years old and I don't want to get married or have children anytime soon.
Your bf seems to be very immature. Why would he want to go to the strip club, and tell you he finds other women attractive.
In relationships there are things you just don’t say or do. Or at least confess to doing or wanting to do.
Sweetie you’re too young to be so hung up on this guy. Finish high school, go to college, get to know who you are. Children will come later as will marriage.
My mom was 30 when I was born and my dad 40. Don’t rush.
2007-12-12 15:45:10 · answer #2 · answered by Super PI 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not bad to love him that much, but the problem is that because you are young, there's a higher chance that you may not last with him. Then it hurts a lot more if you have that high of emotion with him. It's good to care about him that much. Just be wary of the fact that he may eventually find that you are not the right girl for him.
As for the clubs, it's okay for you to get jealous. At least you know that he did not choose you because you were the "hottest." He chose you for you. That's all the matters.
2007-12-12 15:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by niiro13 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it somewhat is gonna truly stink, and your not gonna like the respond......yet you're able to attend. I married my intense college sweetheart. have been given preganant at sixteen, had the new child at 17. replaced into the happiest individual I ever replaced into! Mrried him...yet then existence happened. human beings strengthen up. human beings do alot of turning out to be up between 18-22. And esp when you consider which you're 13....you have alot to journey. I have little question which you like him. Thats not the challenge in any respect. yet once you like him, then what's the frenzy? in case you will spend something of your existence at the same time, then why not see it via and do it suitable? you will get the respect out of your friends and family contributors.....and it can be a great love tale to tell the youngsters :) I even have been there. I even have felt that eagerness. yet being now 27...there is plenty to earnings and handle. playstation : I have been given married at 19 and it stunk not being waiting to drink at my wedding ceremony! ust a concept !
2016-10-02 08:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is a jerk who wants to have his cake and eat it too.
You need to 1 put an end to his shenanigans or 2 Realise he won't change and you don't need a husband and father of your kids who acts like this and get out of there.
This is not right. Your his girlfriend and he isn't treating you right by doing this stuff.
2007-12-12 15:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is cuz sooner or later your gonna get heart broken and scared for life!!!
2007-12-12 15:47:40 · answer #6 · answered by Sweetgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are going to be men and boys are going to be boys
2007-12-12 15:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by p rock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋