kiss, date, boyfriend ect, and I wish I had my first kiss already.
I'm in Middle School they are kno guys that
a. Like me
b. Are Avalible and likable
I'm 13 I like a guy, but he doesn't want to date now(at this age), and we are going to different high schools.
What should I do?
SHould I change my image, do get guys to like me? that sounds........ I don't kno a word to describe it but not good.
I hate how when people ask if I've gone out or kiss I have to answer back "No".
ahhhhhh I'm going to go madd!!!!
2007-12-12 15:26:06 · 12 answers · asked by me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, I'm 18, and I haven't even gotten a girl to say yes.
The boy you like is very respectable for putting a girl off because of his age.
Two different high schools doesn't matter (unless it's far away, but considering you go to the same middle school, it shouldn't be). I know many couples who go to different high schools which does not impede their relationship (so what if you don't see them at school? you can't do anything significant there anyway...everything happens after school or weekends)
So don't worry. Gosh, you're only 13 and you're worried. Worry when you are like 18...
2007-12-12 15:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by niiro13 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope you take this to Heart, Image is just what the word means AN image. what about Truth! you want a boy to like you? They already do and they always will. Now get the best ones, make the grades and focus on who you are and who you're going to be. are you going to be the smart good looking girl? or are you going to be the stupid good looking babe that got knocked up by some looser jerk that just wanted quick sex? Never been kissed..... yeah never been kissed by a jerk . Just watch and Listen you'll see just what trouble you have already avoided. be the popular smart woman not the stupid Girl.
2007-12-12 15:48:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tony Burke 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER change yourself to impress someone. Relationships will come, but it will take some time. They are not a good thing to rush into. Someday you will meet someone that turns your world upside down and they will be the only thing you think about. When that time comes you will know. I am 18 and just recently got my first girlfriend, it is not your first boyfriend/kiss will take some time but it doesn't really require effort and is something that works best when you relax, wait, and a have a good time.
2007-12-12 15:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by nod2323 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Patience is the answer, Tree Hug, but I have a feeling that answer will get lost in your anxiety.
My advice for what you should do? Save that precious first kiss for another guy... a guy who can appreciate it. Because he can make that precious kiss priceless.
Finally, when friends ask about your personal life, answer them with a smile. That's all. A smile.
2007-12-12 15:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, some ppl lie when they tell u that theyve had their first kiss and stuff. so, theres really no rush, but be yourself, and pick up on hints. guys wait for girls to make the first move allot. but, if a guy asks u to a movie or dance-he likes you. is he goes out of his way to meet with u -he likes u. that guy'll come soon enough. if ur brave enough, use peer pressure. tell ur friends who u like, the word will get out to him, -while ur acting like u dont want it to- and then he'll know u like him, but he thinks that he's the only one who knows, and then he'll have the choice of goin for u or not..
goodluck! hope that helped. my email: justjared135@yahoo.com for more ?'s
2007-12-12 15:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares?
be happy you're not a walking around making out with every guy.
you should be proud of not having anyone yet
that way when you do actually find someone...it'll be special and nice.
trust me. boys and kissing aren't that great anyway. least...not in middle school or high school.
2007-12-12 15:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by heretohelp 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Noway be yourself. You are going to meet other guys that your gonna like and they will like you too. This guy just not ready don't pressure him be happy that he isn't a pig like most teenage boys.
2007-12-12 15:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh middle school....lol......your best bet is just to wait till high school. slowly change your image. dont be to dramatic. make friends with the popular people. to get noticed you have to be noticeable.
good luck! =]]
2007-12-12 15:32:36 · answer #8 · answered by CASSiEE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. I'm 17 and never had a kiss. I'm not a geek, I just don't want to date.
Its really normal, just don't worry about stuff like that and relax...
2007-12-12 15:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by jv4life_13 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just wait till your older. if you rush everything it will never mean anything. slow down. changing yoruself just hurts you in the end. its not something to be ashamed of its just the way things should be.
2007-12-12 15:31:09 · answer #10 · answered by Cass 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋