What is the best way to get over someone that you've been really close with for such a long time, and you know no matter what you're only going to be really good friends because she doesnt like me the way i like her...?? Please help me.
2007-12-12 15:17:17 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take it day by day. This to shall pass, soon you'll feel like dating again. Don't rush things.
2007-12-12 15:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela V 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the best way, i think you know the answer already, time is the best healer out of anything. everything else is only temporary, only time heals the pain and wound. there's nothing you can do about it, just move on, take a step at a time. be brave, this is life.
hey, may be she doesn't see it like the way that you do now, give her some time, be her friend. hey, you'll never know...
2007-12-12 23:23:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun ..concentrate on other stuff ...Chill with other girls , go to party's just have fun and live your life..she might just get jealous enough to like you even more :) That would be good for you ! Study if you are in college ...and that will take your mind off her for now ! Hope this helps ..and good luck ~
Merry Christmas (also) !!!!
2007-12-12 23:27:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way to get over her is to focus more on yourself. try to find new things to do or new places to visit. keeping yourself occupied, is honestly the best way to get over someone.or maybe, you can go out with your boys. a night out with the boys can never go wrong. it keeps you so busy that you don't have time to think and ponder on what they're doing. maybe, with all of this chaos with your "tight" schedule and all, youll be able to find/meet a new girl, who can potentially return those feelings back .
2007-12-12 23:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by joselito d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't
thats hard, it sounds like love hun.
I've been in that situation, just keep being friends though.
I waited two whole years to get the guy I have now, because I started and always thought he never loved/liked me.
2007-12-12 23:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by TTC #1 hoping for 2009 baby! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its soooo hard isnt it??? well i think the thing that worked for me was listening to a little song called pain (three days grace) about 20 times in a row...lol. jk. seriously, you just have to focus on something else. make yourself, and its gonna be hard! think about other ppl who DO care about you...or, if you really really like her than go after her more! show her you want her...listen to her, talk, be there. be everything that she isnt, be everything shes ever wanted. just be yourself and who knows what will happen
2007-12-12 23:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...just do something to take your mind off her like video games or sports or watching a really big game
2007-12-12 23:21:34 · answer #7 · answered by That's your problem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard it sucks maybe evaulate u r in ur friendship i.e too close friendships can hurt u more when she likes someone else and u cant do anything dont distance urself too far but be thankful that ur still in her life and that she is in urs!
2007-12-12 23:21:02 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time.
Unfortunatley, thats the only cure. Just let father time heal your wounds, you'll get back in the game soon.
2007-12-12 23:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by jv4life_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay good friends and don't let the little things get in the way...not worth it to ruin a good friendship.
2007-12-12 23:20:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lee H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋