Ok so my cousin went out with this guy named Erik for like a week and she knew that i liked him when she was going out with him.And so then they broke up.and then they went out again and i still liked him.and so now he asked me out and i said yes and i think my cousin will get mad if i tell her that im going out with him?what do u think should i tell her the truth?because she still likes him
2007-12-12 14:57:35 · 33 answers · asked by Priscilla 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you tell her, this will be the order of things that will happen(yes tell her)
1.She'll be pissed
2.She'll get over him
3.you'll be cool with eachother again
GOOD LUCK
May the schwartz be with you
2007-12-12 15:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You two will always be related, but guys will come and go. You don't want to ruin your relationship over this. Simply tell your cousin the circumstances of your situation, and let her know that you aren't necessarily asking her for her permission, but you wanted to be considerate and let her know instead of letting her find out some other, less family-like, way. Make sure you let her know that it's nothing against her personally.
2007-12-12 15:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows that you like him, but that did not stop her, so you know that she likes him, so do her a favor and go out with this boy that likes many woman at the same time.
However, remember that girls are way ahead of the guys at your age, so play with him, but don't hurt him to badly. If he is just trying to take advantage of you, then that is probably what he was doing with your cousin.
In that case practice saying no!
2007-12-12 15:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by zclifton2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get mad when she went out with him knowing that you liked him?
Just go out with him. Be graceful and tell your cousin, but remember you are doing it as a sign of politeness and it is not an obligation!
2007-12-12 15:01:47 · answer #4 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you always have to tell the truth in these situations because then you'll be living a lie, and it won't be nice to have a boyfriend if your feeling guilty about it the whole time. Just telll her and let her know that you didnt say yes to him to make her mad, explain to her that you really like alot!! I hope it works out well
2007-12-12 15:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your cousin before you ever go out with him. Feel her out to see what she is thinking about the situation. No guy is worth losing a good friendship over, especially with a family member.
2007-12-12 15:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about this first...why is HE doing what he is? Are you both easy? Or was your cousin not so easy? Are you willing to forsake your Family for a guy who already, you know it, does not care about either of you? Go ahead...you'll regret it every day that he won't even acknowledge you after the fact.
2007-12-12 15:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by ugh192 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if she knew u liked him she shouldnt have gone out with him..i think u should take the high road and not be like ur stupid cousin and care about her feelings...since its maybe just been a short time since they split why dont u just let him and you be friends for maybe 2 weeks or something to get to know him and once ur cousin gets used to the idea u guys hanign out and then she might be okay with u going out but he kinda seems going bk and forward between u...
2007-12-12 15:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki Y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them both the truth. Tell the boy about how your cousin feels about him, and then just break up with him. I'm sure he'll understand, friends are better than being together with someone.
2007-12-12 15:00:20 · answer #9 · answered by pantytiana 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well she went out with him knowing full well you liked him but wouldn't you feel weird dating a guy your cousin has dated. That's a little weird. If you do decide to go out with him you should definitely tell her she deserves it!
2007-12-12 15:01:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
truth is always the best policy. You have to tell her that you like him and want to pursue him. Then, if she says you can, you're golden. Or, if she says you can't, you have a personal choice to make: Go for the guy and screw your friend over, or leave the guy alone and be good friend.
2007-12-12 15:01:25 · answer #11 · answered by C'est Pas Vrai! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋