my friends ready to have sex with her boyfriend, where as the furthest ive gone with a guy is make out.
i know this is a really odd position but a part of me doesnt want her having sex cos im afraid things will change because i cant relate at all and create some sort of pressure on me.
anyone ever feel like this?
2007-12-12 14:43:08 · 7 answers · asked by gypsy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please don't have sex just because your friend is. I wished so badly I knew back then all the things I know now. I don't want to sound like mommy but every time you sleep with someone you are giving a part of yourself to him that you can never get back. Besides, don't you want to wait for that right guy. Then it will be special. Oh, yeah, just because he says he loves you doesn't mean he's the right guy. Be one in a million and don't do it. In the end do you want to know what all the guys really want? The good girl who didn't sleep around. That is what will make you the most attractive in the end.
2007-12-12 14:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by christy1001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Ask her if she's 100% ready. Ask her if she's ready to have a baby and get married to this guy. Ask her if she wants to have STDs. Make sure that she knows ALL the risks involved with sex. That she can get pregnant every time, even on the pill. That some STDs can be transmitted even without intercourse.
About the relating thing, I understand. I'm in college and haven't had sex. It is pretty weird to talk about, but I ignore it if it comes up, or I ask the subject to be changed. If she does decide to do it, ask her to spare you the details. But make sure that you tell her that you will be there for her if she has an emergency.
2007-12-12 22:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Cal Poly Chica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't decide for your friend. Don't feel pressured into doing something you are not ready for.
2007-12-12 22:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by hermanthemagnificent 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till marraige all you young go-getters
2007-12-12 22:48:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your friend does. I doubt she will like put pressure on you, if she is your true friend that is.
2007-12-12 22:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Will999909 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that too.
Sex will definitely ruin their friendship.
Talk her out of this decision!
2007-12-12 22:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
a true friend wouldnt tell you something you dont want to do, if things go down hill, call her a whore or ****
2007-12-12 22:47:48 · answer #7 · answered by laxitivepo 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋