Major guy problem, help?

Question

I'm 14.

Okay, exactly one week ago this guy I hardly knew asked me out, and he's cute so I said yes.

We have not gone anywhere yet, because we're 14 and couldn't do anything over the weekend. However, I am starting to like him less and less. At first he seemed like a really nice guy and I enjoyed talking to him on the phone. But now he's getting annoying.

It turns out he doesn't pay attention to a thing I tell him. I told him I skipped 8th grade, and he seems like he doesn't even know. Still trying to talk to me about 8th grade teachers and who I liked. That's just an example. But then he remembers things like I'm busy Friday. But I know he doesn't just want to make out, because he's never even had his first kiss before.

He called 4 times on the snow day yesterday and I answered once.

He talks about thinks like video games, and how annoying his sister (who sounds sweet) is.

Long story short- should I go on a date with him, or end it now?

Answer 1

if he is freakly annoying END IT!!! you shouldnt pretend to like a guy if you dont.....dont worry more fishes in the sea!

Answer 2

You're only 14. My relationships were pretty bad at that age, too. If you don't think you like him, break up with him. But I'd say to give him another day. You should definitely hang out with him at least once. I know that I personally say things on the phone that I don't say in person, just to keep the conversation going. Just give it a try.

Answer 3

That's what guys like to talk about at that age, nothing you can truly do about that. Try talking to him in a serious manner, and tell him it's serious. Maybe you guys should have started out just being friends, and then have it develop into a relationship. Don't end it so hastily though. You don't want to ruin something you might have good.

Answer 4

i might unload them the two and tell them u made a mistake. J he appears like a actual jerk and if he does not take excitement in ur solutions then ur to stable for him. N th different one u do not even particularly be responsive to him he may be a stalker n tell him that u theory he wuz kidding while he asked u out.

Answer 5

Ah, high school, the days in life I was supposed to hang onto & enjoy....and they flew by.....I remember all the girls were in love w/this jock and he finally asked my friend Carla out. She was so excited, flying on cloud 9....she went out with him. Their date was him working on his car and she stood there watching. She never went out with him again. There has to be a concertive effort on his part-he needs to win you over, you don't have to waste your time talking yourself into him. Believe me you have all the time & can pick & choose to your liking. He's nervous I'm sure..I sure wish someone would have said this to me-but don't be with someone just to be with someone! It's not worth your time or theirs. But everyone can always use a friend, as long as they know that's all it's going to be.

Answer 6

End it now. He obviously doesn't care about you to forget such an important aspect of your educational life! lol. Just because he's never had his first kiss, doesn't mean he doesn't want to. I'm thinking he's rushing and trying to establish some sort of loose realtionship just to get a first kiss with you. Leave him.

Answer 7

GO on a date don't jump the gun, see how he is one on one.
Dont end this. This could end up to something better than it is now.
Give him a chance.
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Good Luck!!

Answer 8

loller gag @that guy lmao he sounds like a robot who doesnt run out of batteries

Answer 9

give him a chance i always say that (unless they REALLY are a freak lol) but yea give him a chance. talk to him about how u feel aobut that hole thing and see where it goes

Answer 10

i'd say dump him, he sounds like a guy friend more than a relationship