Ok here's the deal. I met this guy about 8 months ago through a mutual friend. We really hit it off and became pretty good friends. We hung out a bunch of times with either a group of people or just on our own. Some stuff happened between us that launched us into the more than friends category, but we talked and decided that we should just stay friends. The main reason is that he doesn't live in the same city as me. He works with the mutual friend where I live, then after the team's season is over he goes back to where he lives-1000 miles away, basically need to fly there. So we obviously haven't seen each other since he left. But he's called a few times and each phone call confuses me even more. We start off talking about random stuff- the "hey what's new?" and "how was your thanksgiving?" small talk. Then he starts asking me if I'll be in his area at all before he comes back to start working again, or if I'll be down for Spring Training...
2007-12-12 14:14:33 · 12 answers · asked by Elle 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
... he always tells me how much he misses me and how he doesn't want to wait months to see me and he also says that he's not the same without me. Just the way he's talking and acting, I kinda get the impression that we're more than friends - but then I think about our conversation when we decided to be just friends. I'm confused. I think I'm overanalyzing a bit, haha. Anyone have any ideas as to what any of this means?
2007-12-12 14:17:01 · update #1
Actually he's not a baseball player. Athletes aren't the only people that work for baseball teams.
2007-12-12 14:24:34 · update #2
I wish I could tell you guys all the details, but our relationship is just so weird and confusing - it would just confuse everybody and I don't think there's enough room for me to even start typing it all, haha. My best friend agrees with me. Neither of us can figure him out.
2007-12-12 14:29:17 · update #3
If you attempt to 'see' men as you 'see' females you will be very confused.
We are totally different than guys.
Don't expect, any time soon, for that to change.
They look at us- women- in the same way.
{why are women so confusing?]
It appears that he feels a connection to you and wants to maintain that connection.
What do you expect?
You have a friendship that developed into something more
Distance prevents you from deepening the relationship.
It does not have to be completely dissolved, does it?
If you ONLY want to be friends and remain that way....you need to be more clear.
What do you want?
Be clear and concise and tell him what you want and what you expect from this relationship, in the near and distant future.
You must be sending mixed messages to him.
2007-12-12 14:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by sasha1641 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 10:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt sound confusing to me. you said you are staying just friends. friends ask questions like are you gonna be in the area. or will you be down for spring training. whats the confusing part?
2007-12-12 14:17:25 · answer #3 · answered by negaduck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Spring Training"...oh so he's one of those. Honey, get a clue here, this boy has got a girl in every town he plays in, he is playing more than just his sport...he's playing the field too.
End the conversation when he starts with the more than small talk. Just say, well gotta go now...click.
2007-12-12 14:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In my experience, men are incredibly simple! It's only when we women expect them to be devious that we get confused.
Sounds simply like he's making plans to have a woman around when he gets back, as in you. No marriage plans, no over thinking on his part at all. He simply likes you.
2007-12-12 14:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Persona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he either reely likes u but thinks that long-distance relationships won't work out, or he just can't wait to see a good friend.
2007-12-12 14:20:05 · answer #6 · answered by touykos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really know whats confusing about that, he likes you enough to want to see you again, even though he has to be far away-(its nice not confusing)
2007-12-12 14:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Hunter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got lonely and called you hoping to hook up. Nothing confusing here.
2007-12-12 14:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by jon_mac_usa_007 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not confusing, he just wants to catch up with you and maybe hang out again someday
2007-12-12 14:17:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants occassional sex with you whenever convenient. So he likes to plan for it based on your plans.
2007-12-12 14:18:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋