ok, everytime i'm dating a women, more women flirt with me. when i'm single, women dnt pay that much attention. what is it ladies, help me out here..
2007-12-12 14:03:36 · 31 answers · asked by nmcs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether it's clothes or a car, a house or a guy, women are competitive and i think you understand this dynamic perfectly well. It happens with guys too.
They want what someone else has. Often, all you have to do to get one girl is look a little too long at her friend.
2007-12-12 14:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you are more confident and more at ease because you already have a girl (that is, you're really not out there trying to get with ladies and more just being yourself when you go out) and women are attracted to your laid-back vibe. Because most women are of course more attracted to a laid back confident guy than a guy who's trying too hard.
2007-12-12 22:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by mre45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say that's true. It seems many women want what someone else has or so it may seem. But I'll bet most of those women are by themselves and looking with nothing else to do. They get a kick out of causing trouble. Keep your eyes where they belong, on someone who really cares about you rather than those just trying to get a rise out of you and screw up your relationship. It's one of the reasons that women don't bond and help each other out like men do.
2007-12-12 22:10:32 · answer #3 · answered by towanda 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women think..you are worthy flirty when you already have one..that is the proof..when you are engaged..they know for sure..you are worth having a girl or worth being flirted..
another thing could be..they just flirt for fun and know it wont turn out to be serious relation has you already have one..so have fun..just chill.
Women are lil difficult to understand..and thats why they are women..they think irrational but thats how they are..they are emotional and they mostly think through heart..no matter what kind of situation or problem is..
Women eazily understand love, care and concern as opposed to practicality
2007-12-12 22:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your question made me laugh. I'm a girl and have noticed the same thing!
I think it has a lot to do with confidence. When you are in a relationship you feel good about yourself and people notice that. When you aren't in a relationship bolster that confidence by reminding yourself about all the reasons why a girl falls for you in the first place.
Either that or the universe is screwing with you.
2007-12-12 22:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by doglover12789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your dating someone then all the pressure is off. Women feel free to react to you with no expectations being placed on them. I suppose some might like the thrill of the forbidden but trust me, most just feel free to relax and enjoy you as a person.
2007-12-12 22:07:52 · answer #6 · answered by dunns_kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though it drives us crazy when we're dating a guy and chicks are always hittin' on our guy, we are attracted to those who are unavailable. If a guy is married or engaged we subconsciously know that this guy is ready for commitment, and we want that for ourselves. Even if your just dating and are attentive to your girl, that is something us women want. You're just showing the traits we like when you're with someone that you wouldn't show when you're hanging out with friends. Some of us just like the challenge of gitting the guy whose taken.
2007-12-12 22:13:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jnine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Remember they are just flirting, and you are unavailable. You are a pretty safe target for a little fun.
*There is no challenge flirting with a single man.
*For sure there is something more attractive about people who in a relationship - maybe it's confidence.
2007-12-12 22:11:33 · answer #8 · answered by bin there dun that 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. We always want what we can't have.
2. If someone else desires you, then it is more likely that we would desire you too. Gives you more faith if a guy can keep another woman happy, then he could possibly keep you happy too. A single man is usually single for a reason.
2007-12-12 22:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by just wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you give off a man of mystery air when you are with a date that all us ladies with no date want to learn more about you .
2007-12-12 22:07:14 · answer #10 · answered by PUNKIN' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋