What can I do so that my boyfriend won´t take me for granted?

Answer 1

be physically sweet and sensitive to him when he's around, dont be too emotional when you tell stories and when you present problem dont always sound whining, dont nag, be supportive, compliment his achievements, cook for him, give him his space to think and be alone, give him the time to be with his buddies.

and for you, please also continue having a life of your own while in this relationship. Give more love for yourself. Lets say 55%-45% 55% is for your love for yourself so that whatever happens you have a great deal of self love to be able to pick up yourself. Continue on developing yourself.

unless you're in the marrying age or already financially settled, mostly relationships are short term.

Answer 2

what does he do that makes you think he is taking you for granted? If it is last minute dates, then just say, oh dang, wish you had called sooner, as i have already made plans. I didn't know you were thinking of me., you are so sweet, but sorry. If he assumes that you will always give in, then only when you are in agreement. If you don't show who you are and do something to show it now, you will be in an abusesive arrangements which you will hate in 5 years. There are enough men ought there who are nice guys who are looking for a nice lady.
Men have to be told you are worthy and are to be treated with respect, if he can't do that, then run.

Answer 3

hi.one tip i can give you is that make sure he was really serious about your relationship in the first place. if he is then try not to be too submissive and showy about your love, in this way the mystery wont fade and he'll always find you interesting. but ofcourse you have to show him you love him to. balance is the key. When you show him you love him too much you are taken for granted, loving him too little will lead him to other women. Be a cool girlfiend and know how to balance things in your relationship. good luck..

Answer 4

you shouldn't have to make him! If he likes you he won't take you for granted and if he does bring up how you're feeling and if he is still taking you for granted then you need to cut him lose and know you can do better!

Answer 5

1.make some pretty strong guy friends.

2. Don't center youself around him. Prioratize your own life.

3. Hang around wi your girl friends., more.

4. be confident about you in front of your bf.

If these things doesn't work out, and you are not ok wi this,
the ultimate solution is to leave him.

Answer 6

Well, you can ask him certain questions, and make sure he loves you for sure. Do things that will keep him only wanting you, AND ONLY YOU. I went thru the same thing. And if he does take you for granted, then you know HE WASN'T WORTH IT AFTER ALL. :/

Answer 7

Are you making yourself to available to him? Are you doing things for him that he could be doing for himself? Try pulling away slightly and stop calling him. Don't call him for a day or two. He'll get the message.

Answer 8

Nothing. At the present, you both found each other. If you leave him or he leaves you it will be your decison. Be who you are and dont look back. Live ilefe to the fullest, grab on tight and say "to hell with the consequences".

Answer 9

Lose interest...it gets 'em every time...and are you in love w/him? If not, what's the problem...announce Next Please.
You need to build on your self esteem. You are a gift...don't let just anyone who acts like a jerk unwrap you!!!!

Answer 10

Get a new one who won't make you have to ask questions like this. If a guy is making you question this sort of thing, then he's not worth it.