The reason I only had a couple of boyfriends (all my other friends had like 84573895 already) is because I'm dreadfully picky. Oh, his nose is too big. Oh, he's not cute enough. Oh, he's not funny enough. Oh, he's not my type at all. Oh, he's not social enough. Oh, he's too nerdy. And on and on and on. I never actually say that to the guy, and I don't think of them as a lesser person (I would probably be friends with them anyway) but I still find something wrong with every boy I see. I'm starting to get desperate, but at the same time I see no one around me that I would ever go out with. What's wrong with me?
2007-12-12 13:01:50 · 5 answers · asked by love, come save me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you are too picky, you should go out with a guy that you won't break up this time and not criticizing them.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-12 13:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to be a little bit picky with certian attributes, but more so personality characteristics and social compatibility should factor in to your pickiness, rather than sheer physical appearance alone.
If you get to picky, every guy you see is going to seemingly have something wrong with him. It is actually quite rare that you will meet an individual that precisly resembles your "dream man" in both looks and personality. It's just not going to happen. However, what you consider your "dream person" right now will probably change as you get older and end up meeting somebody you really like. An individual's personality and morals and values, etc should play a much more significant role in your choosing of men as opposed to less important, considerably more shallow and vain preferences such as physical appearance.
Perhaps when you "lower your exspectations", so to speak, and not worry about finding the perfect guy, it will become much easier for you to hook up with someone who you can end up loving.
2007-12-12 13:15:54 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're looking at things from the wrong perspective. You're too obsessed with getting a 'perfect' boyfriend- or maybe you just don't want to date at all, so you're trying to find fault with every boy who COULD be your boyfriend.I'm not saying you should settle for someone who you really don't like at all, just remember that nobody is perfect, and a nose isn't a good indicator of what kind of person somebody is.
2007-12-12 13:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by sophieb44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too picky! what if the guys were looking at you saying your nose was too big, or your aren't cute enought, or too nerdy...
2007-12-12 13:06:29 · answer #4 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 02:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by puiatti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋