If you tell a girl your in love with her, and you mean it, and you pure your heart to her, and have nothing else you can say, and feel unhappiness when shes not around, and feel like your on top of the world when she is, and all she says back is she doesn't know. She says she cares for me, and doens't know if she like me as just a friend, or more. We used to date, and broke up cos of problems with her parents. She said she loved me when we where together, but doesn't know what she wants now. I miss her so much, and I wanna be with her. Im really in love with her. I asked if I should just give her space, and she says its up to me. Of course, I can't keep away, so I guess she keeps me around?. She calls me, talks to me all the time, knowing how I feel. I dont know what to do anymore, like, my soul is lost or something...help me, please.
2007-12-12 12:31:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u should go for a girl who into toys...if u know wut i mean
2007-12-12 12:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Been there, done that. be the best friend you can be, but get over her however you can... find someone who knows they want to be with you. Yes, this does take time, but you have already invested time with this one and she still doesnt know. That doesnt mean you have to be rude or mean to her, but you need to find someone who feels the same way about you as you do them. Staying like this will only eat you up and keep you from being all that you can be because you are distracted by the why's and what's so wrong with you crap. You seem smart, and spell better than most I see in here, so gather yourself up, step out of the box and take a good look. Try to find others that share your desires etc. Time does have a way of healing, use it to heal
2007-12-12 12:43:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just loves your attention, and having you all over her. You can't help it because you are in love with her. Its hard if the relationship is one-sided, I guess you have to give YOURSELF space, space to think, and evaluate the situation, how long can you stand being taken for granted? I suggest you give up and find yourself someone who will love you wholeheartedly, this girl is not for you if you are looking for someone who will reciprocate the intensity of your feelings. You deserve someone better.
2007-12-12 16:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey, just try ur best to live your life as fully as you can. U'll still miss her sure, but try to find other things and friends that will fill your time, hate to sound like a cliche, but if she really loves u, she'll come back. If not...well, just try to have as much of a fun and full life as you can and if she sees that you are moving on, it might just inspire her to come back...hope it works out for ya! good luck dear
2007-12-12 12:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by mommy 2 4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So the same thing has happened to me. In the end, at least for me, is that they prolong the recovery time. She told me no because we werent from the same social group and it would have been hard for me to connect with her friends and family. Best thing is to stop picking up and stop answering her emails.
2007-12-12 12:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by terminallyalone2007 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to seem REALLY hard, because you're afraid she'll forget about you (she won't, trust me), but try to back off so she can miss you. She'll never miss you if you're always hanging around.
2007-12-12 12:38:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. She's obviously not independent enough to know whether or not she is ready for a relationship again.
2007-12-12 12:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u shoudl just be threre for her and i understand tht u love her i ve been in ur postion b4 with my exbf. i think that should be there for her and when she sees wat an awesome guy u r she'll fall abck in lobve with her...i noe that i don't noe u but it takes a reall guy to admit that he luvs a girl a lot and will do anything 2 be with her.
2007-12-12 12:39:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you tend to come off a LITTLE too strong - if this question is ANY indication of how you say things ;);););)
2007-12-12 12:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be flattering MAKE HER WANT YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE
2007-12-12 12:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋