Ok. Today I think I may have ended a friendship that I wish I hadn't. My friend Evan, is my best friend. I get sick of her ranting about how much she hates this other girl, Mallory that betrayed us a while back. I mean constantly saying "This anger building up inside me can't be good. I hate Mallory." She aslo blabs on and on about my boyfriend petting her and playing around. He does, but not how she explains. Then, when we get home from school, we ALWAYS call eachother. Well, lately, she has been saying stuff like call me back in 20 mins, I wanna go outside. (She hates outdoors.) Or my mom has to use the phone. When I call back, she's on the phone with my boyfriend! And they talk for hours. She never calls me back, and today I told her to stop it all or I won't talk to her that day. She did, so I didn't talk to her. Now she is being a little stuck up brat trying to steal my friends. What should I do about Leslie (Justin-Boyfriend) and Evan? What's this all mean? Please help! ~ Shareen
2007-12-12 12:21:57 · 28 answers · asked by shareenwtiger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ugh, she sounds like a brat.. just ignore her... a real friend doesnt do that kind of stuff .. specially talking to your boyfriend.. thats weird...
you're better off without her..and him...
2007-12-12 12:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by liliana8199 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This friend is betraying you. She talks to your boyfriend for hours? If so, she wouldn't be my friend unless she stopped that. Also let her know that you are sick of hearing how much she hates this Mallory. Also tell her that if she is going to talk to you then talk to you and if she is not going to talk to you then don not talk to you.Tell her Don't give me some excuse for not wanting to talk to me...just tell me straight up. This doesn't sound like a very good friend by the information you gave me to go by...but you know her and the situation best. You must decide on your own whether you wan to still be friends with her or not. Whether you still want to go out with your boyfriend even though he calls and talks to your best friend for hours. It's all up to you and how you decide to handle it could change your life. Think hard about it and I know that you will make the best decision for you during this confusing time in your life. You can deal with all of this and overcome this dillema.
2007-12-12 20:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunnie, she isn't a true friend! Just forget about her. And you need to tell your boyfriend that it bothers you...guys are slow, they don't understand that it makes you jealous. And if he doesn't stop, then you really need to get new friends. Don't try and fix it though, that will just hurt you worse in the end. There is no such thing as a happy ending, so don't search for it!
2007-12-12 20:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by BunnyBottomBoom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call ur boyfriend and tell him its u or her, make sure he wants u tho, then call the mallory girl and tell her that evan is telling everone that she sleeps around and has stds. then mallory will tkae care of evan for u, and u get ur boyfriend back, plus once ur boyfriend hears about the stds hell def pick u.
2007-12-12 20:26:38 · answer #4 · answered by fairyprinces5689 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have Evan talk to Mallory.
2007-12-12 20:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Skunk 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep your eyes opened.. Something might be going on between her and your boyfriend... She doesn't seem to be a really good friend... I suggest you speak to the both of them and find out what's going on and then find new friends... Get rid of the negative in your life and bring in the positive..
Good Luck
2007-12-12 20:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like u dont care. if you telling her the truth end our friendship shes not a good friend. u should be able tell you "bestfriend" when she acting like a hoe, or brat so she can stop because u care about her. and that what good friend do they dont let u go around acting stupid. if she cant take it just back off and if she cares she'll come around
2007-12-12 20:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by kurls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be her friend becuase she's so immiture, and she definately wants something to do with your boyfriend. Also, she doesn't seem so healthy with so much anger, which she probably had for you right now for standing up for yourself. Talk to your boyfriend ASAP about what's going on between them, etc.
2007-12-12 20:28:47 · answer #8 · answered by Ana•Mtz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she is doing with your boyfriend. Talk to Leslie, and see if he likes her or if she is just annoying him. And you might as well tell her everything in your heart, or, she will just keep doing it. She needs to be put back in her place. Good luck, Ruby.
2007-12-12 20:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by Ruby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one...
best friends usually reach a time in life that they are EXTREMELY annoyed and tired of eachother. i went through this too. the only difference is WHY we got in a fight.
i feel like your "friend" is not trustworthy. She is really selfish and uses ppl to make her feel better. If she REALLY cared for you, she would be chatting up a storm with your boyfriend and constantly telling about wut he does to her [cuz she KNOWS that obviously and somewhat bothers you.
and NO best friend would go around "stealing" your friends and stuff either.
wut you need to do, is maybe apologize for confronting her the way you did, and just tell her straight up whats bothering you that she does.
You dont want to get close with her but you deff dont want to have enemies.. so make up wiht her COMPLETELY and decide whether or not its even necessary to tell her again wuts bothering you that she does.
remember the worse thing to have in schoool are enemys so just try to make up and then just no be that close
2007-12-12 20:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by LiLyPooH 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋