He's really sweet, and he sits with me everyday at lunch, he really likes me, he's on the A-B honor roll, he's okay looking, and he doesn't try to go too far with me. The only thing is he swears all the time, which I CANNOT STAND, and we've only had one hug in the two months we've been going out. It's like he's scared to try to hug or kiss me, and I don't know why. Also, my best friend used to have a little crush on him, and I can't tell if she still does. Another thing is that this other guy likes me, and I might like him, but I still kinda like my current boyfriend. I'm so confused! Should I break up with my boyfriend? If so, how should I do it?
2007-12-12 11:41:50 · 7 answers · asked by wacky562908123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i kno a lot of guys that have this constant cussing problem. in fact, i sit by some at lunch everyday. i agree with you that it's gets tiring. i hate cussing, i think that it's uncalled for. i'm a strong Christian believer, so when people do it, it bothers me. What you should do is just sit down and explain to him that it really bothers you that he has such a huge problem with swearing. If he acts like he doesn't care, tell him that it's really not going to work out if he can't make this little sacrifice for you, because you've obviously made the huge sacrifice of not cheating on him or breaking up with him and dealing with his prob for 2 whole months.
2007-12-12 11:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him about the cussing? Tell him it really bothers you and that you'd rather him not do it period or at least not in front of you.
Maybe you should hug him or hold his hand. It seems like you guys are really young so it's ok take it slow. He seems like a nice guy. So what if your best friend has a little crush on him he's your boyfriend. Maybe be a little more forward with him and you make the move and hold him hand.
How do you feel about this other guy? Are you willing to hurt your boyfriends feelings to try to date the other guy? You should figure out who it is that you like. Your boyfriend or the other boy who you are not even sure about.
If you do break up with the nice boyfriend, don't do it at school, and do it when it's just the two of you and let him know how you feel and that you are confused and think that it's best that you break up.
Good luck.
2007-12-12 11:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should "take a break". If you think you may have feelings for someone else and you're still in school - don't be exclusive explore your feelings. If he's doing things you don't like and if you've talked to him about them and they haven't changed perhaps he's not the "perfect" guy for you. Staying friends but seeing others may be a great way for you to find out what you're true feelings are. Good Luck.
2007-12-12 11:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Becky V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do ANYTHING...talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel..and maybe he will change. Maybe he is afraid of doing the wrong thing and loosing you..
after you talk to him, and if thing's dont change then you might want to..
1) figure out your feelings...decide who you like more
2) and then possibly break up with youre boyfriend
So. if you decide to break up with him..make sure you thank him for the time you guys spent together and that..it just wasn't meant to be. Also mention (if you want) that you'd still want to be friends...
GOOD LUCK! :)
2007-12-12 11:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by don't gεt mad, gεt glad™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? Anyway.... if you like this other boy and the current boy acts the way he does ,dump him and check out other boys.
2007-12-12 11:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by peepers612003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you talk to him about this?... and if your alredy thinking on the next guy why stick around and hurt the guy your with now?
2007-12-12 11:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by cdlc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well only u can tell who u like... wat i do is see if i can imagine myself losing my virginity to them and if i cant i dont date them... it sounds weird and u dont have to lose it to them but it works
2007-12-12 11:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋