is it odd that a man i have never met tells me he loves me.. ? I know hes not creepy or anything even though met him through myspace. we have kept in touch for over a year on and off..and i know it is him bc i have talked to him before over the phone and googled him aka stalked him. and he is who he says he is ..
hes incredibly attractive and sweet, but he is already saying he wants to switch to my college/move and be in a relationship and says he LOVES ME?!
i mean i believ in love at first site maybe.. but ive neevr even met the dude?! but hes sooo damn fine so soemone tell me if this is too weird?! k thanks!!!
2007-12-12 11:26:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's something to watch out for. Kinda creepy.
If he ever did change schools, make sure if you do happen to meet him, make sure there's plenty of your friends around you.
Seems a little strange, but you know, some people fall in love & live happy lives together by meeting online.
Be cautious, he may be a creep!
2007-12-12 11:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by TreeGurl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you never met him but he is who he is then follow your heart. Some people are just desperate and scams. He might really love you but do you love him? Do you think you love him enoughf to live together. Face it, he might hurt you because you don't know him. In my opinion, I would stop talking to him and then tell him to come and visit on a certian date and meet him at the airport close to your home. Then if he comes you know it is for real and you guys should spend time togehter. Otherwise NO. Don't fall for a fake act. I liked this guy through myspace and I did what he said because he said he loved me and I too loved him. So i took pics of myself (in places) and sent it to him. He went to my school and spread the word I was a slut and I posted it online. Some things are to good to be true.
2007-12-12 19:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah you should ALWAYS shoot common sense in the head just because someone looks "soooo d-amn fine!" UGH!
Your in college?
Act like an adult and use some common sense there g/f. MEET him in person in a public place with OTHER people FIRST go out a few times and if he still wants to switch colleges fine, but NO sex or shacking for a yr.Otherwise you may end up like one of Bundy's women or pregnant and dumped.
2007-12-12 19:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should think about that case a couple years back. If you remember, a girl met a boy on myspace.. and he murdered her parents. Some people, no matter how cute, can't be trusted because of a cute picture and some sweet talk.
2007-12-12 19:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your gut is right. Red flag city. He's a scammer. Trust this wise old hag. If he wanted you in the right way, he would pursue you in the right way. Men that want you and respect you in a "proper manner" treat you like gold and pursue you. This one is a game player. He may be playing 3-4 other girls as well. Let him put in some face time and prove he's the real deal before you lift a finger.. or say a word!
2007-12-12 19:31:54 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just really weird. i had a guy tell me that he loved me only knowing me for like a month and we met through a friend of mine. If i were u i wouldn't want to meet someone like that. Even though you say he's fine. good luck i'd stay away from him.
2007-12-12 19:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by squiggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've never met him, you DON'T know if he's not creepy.
Yes, it's a red flag. You CAN'T love anyone you've never met.
You know what else is a red flag? NOWHERE in those details did you tell us how he felt about him only that "he's sooo damn fine". If you aren't even interested in him beyond his looks, then why would you even consider meeting him in person?
2007-12-12 19:32:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for his little words.
There is no way you can love someone you have never met face to face. So don't go for it..who knows what kind of things are on his mind.
2007-12-12 19:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by don't gεt mad, gεt glad™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well he seems pretty infatuated with you. It might not be love just yet, but who knows what could happen. Just be very careful and don't meet with him alone until you get to know him. Didn't you learn anything about meeting guys over the internet! Be safe and good luck with your cyber love!
2007-12-12 19:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by myluv115 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that's a red flag, tablecloth, bedspread... you name it. It's weird!
Even if he did feel these things, anyone with any sense knows better than to SAY them to someone he's never met! Crazy people can be good looking. Case in point: http://www.crimelibrary.com/serial_killers/notorious/bundy/index_1.html
2007-12-12 19:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Laura 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋