but so does my bestfriend. and she is being such a jerk to me now. like she lied to me and told me that her, my other friend, the guy and his friend all sat together after school in the library. when really my other friend told me they were on the other side of the room. but he should be mine because were both short and my friend who likes him is extremely tall so they wouldnt look good together anyways. and today my friend and him waved goodbye to eachother which made me mad. ive never talked to him in my life. but my friend has an advanteage because she's friends with his best friend so she goes and talks to them. I NEED HELP! what should i do????????????
2007-12-12 11:21:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should talk to him and ignore your best friend because she's not even supporting you right now and that's really hurtful.
-HeartBrokenForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-12 11:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
this is what u should do. but u can't be a lil punk. when u see this dude that u like just walk up to him and say hi. or something. do u have a class with him? bc if u do that makes it even better for you!! bc then u can ask him what last night homeworks was. and if u don't got a class with him. then try this. when u and this guy are walking down the hallway.(opposite) drop ur books or bump up against him and make ur books fall. and everything. and then he will bend down and help u get them. and then ya'll will have a conversation. and it could be the start of something new. well i hope i have been of help. good luck.
2007-12-12 19:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to give you some advice and it is blunt and harsh other might not like this but this has happened to my best mate before, if your 'best mate' turns on you and decides to go all out and get the boy you liked and she knew you liked him then she is not worth it, she is not your freind, she is using you for company and is prepared to loose your freindship over a guy so now i am going to tell you to get confident (use link if you need help with this) and go for the plunge when she isn't around and he is go over and say 'i have seen you around before and thought i would come over and say hi, hows your day going...' most decent men will simply just have a conversation with you after all they have no reason not to. You could ask for his e-mail or something if things are going well but it is best to ask for his e-mail after speaking to him for a while but no harm in doing so if he seems to like you!
I hope this helps if you really like him approach him before she does!
2007-12-12 19:28:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She isn't your friend if she is treating you like this but to be honest I'm guessing you are quite young and at school and things like this always happen when your at that age and it really sucks,but if you really like this guy and you think he likes you to then your going to have to be brave and just let him know,be honest he would probably like that,if not then i wouldn't get stressed about it as i bet there are loads of other hot guys at your school and i don't know any men who would get with a girl that is taller than him coz he knows he would look stupid!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-12-12 19:29:48 · answer #4 · answered by sam d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend that you also like that guy. most esp. wen u think that he lyks you too... remember: a true friend will always understand this situation. if you know that both of them really lyk each other then just find another guy.. indeed it's never wrong to love a person who's heart belongs to someone else but it's always better to love someone who could love you in return... gud luck and God bless =)
2007-12-12 19:30:51 · answer #5 · answered by amarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. First of all, if your friend is being a jerk about it, go ahead and take him. Its kinda mean but if he (or his friend) is hanging around your "friend" go and talk to her and then you and his friend (or him) will be intorduced. You'll then have connections and the rest will fall into place!
2007-12-12 19:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by anew_star@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start by saying hi to him then when ever ur friend goes over go with her and start a conversation before she does to get maximum attention. then tell ur friend that u have feelings for him maybe she would back off good luck to you
2007-12-12 19:26:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first off, how old r u? and well all u have to do is talk to him! get to know his friends more. when u pass by him smile. start waving hi and bye
2007-12-12 19:25:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL... SHE'S A BAD FRIEND... DUMP HER!!!
IF SHE WAS A GOOD FRIEND YOU GUYS WOULD B ABLE TO COME TO AN AGREEMENT...
MAN UP!!!! GOT THE COURAGE TO TALK TO HIM N LET HIM MAKE THE DECISION... BUT DONT SEEM DESPERATE
2007-12-12 19:27:52 · answer #9 · answered by ubb3r_co0l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u r bffs with her right? go over and chat with all of them 2! she cant tell u 2 back off cuz ur just being friendly rite?
2007-12-12 19:23:57 · answer #10 · answered by eRiCa <3 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋