I have liked this girl for about a month now and I am not sure if she has become more nervous around me or just isn't interested.
I have asked her to do things with me three or four times, and everytime she blows me off. However, I do know she has been busy with school and other things. She does tenatively suggest doing things at other times, but nothing specific.
When we start talking to each other she usually cuts it off pretty quickly and walks away. Also when I call her she never picks up, and sometimes texts me back instead of calling me back.
I have even backed off a few times, but then she will come up and initiate a conversation. Also I go up to her and ask her if she is busy on certain nights and can I give her a call and she always says yes.
Is it possible that she is just nervous around me or is she just doing a poor job of blowing me off? I am also somewhat sick of putting myself out there, so could it possibly be that she is playing hard to get still?
2007-12-12 11:13:15 · 11 answers · asked by nyoc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From what you say, she's not interested in being anything more than an acquaintance. Just let go, if she really is interested as you think, she'll come to you.
2007-12-12 11:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Jesus S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest with you it seems you are doing or have done things that could be suggested to you.
Now I guess you just have to ask yourself how much longer do you want to be on this ride?
I would keep it as friends and that is all. Let her do all the moves. I will say that us girls are strange some times, If she sees you talking to another girl she may then want to step up her game. If it doesnt make her jealous then move on.
If you work together sometimes that will be an obstacle.
2007-12-12 11:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by sammy3256 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMFG!!!!!!!!!!! READ THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!! the EXACT same thing hapened... (about the sitting behind crush in ALGEBRA!!!) AHAH! well of course he's interested sweetie!!! he's flirting with u!!! if u want to feel more comfortable, try flirting back.. when u take ur stuff back, touch him as much as u can! in ur head just keep thinking: im confident! i can talk to guys! i'll take this boy if its the last thing i do!!! muahaha! then try this breathe i thought of a couple more tricks for flirting:: lift up them boobies!!! (even if u dont got any!) (if he has pretty big hands (or bigger than urs)) say: oh my gawd! ur hands are really big! look how big it is compared to mine!!! then u'll be touching his hand! some ppl stay holding hands too.. i kno i did ( ; so go for it and just breathe hope i helped!!
2016-05-23 07:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to her, Communication is the best way to understand buddy.
But i think she is trying to send you a message, it will be better if you stayed friends lets say for another month and don't keep calling her or trying to see her.
Make her miss you, wait till she calls, and when she does don't fall right away by calling her back so many times or sending so many emails or asking to go out together.
Play it smart, if you really want this girl.
Good Luck :)
2007-12-12 11:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Confused_Distracted_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I t sounds to me like she is just nervous. If you think about your actions maybe she is still wondering if you like her. Cause you said that you try a little but then back off. If you like her then give her a few more chances. Maybe flat out tell her that you are into her and would like to go out on a date. Hopefully that will clear things up.
2007-12-12 11:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by Athena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no offense, but it kind of sounds like she's just trying to break it to you easily. don't sweat though...if it isn't meant to be, it's not meant to be, right? you'll find that perfect gal, and you won't have to ever ask her a second time to go to a movie with you. She'll be all up on that game. Have fun, and Good luck with your life.
2007-12-12 11:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Cullen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she maybe wanting to just stay friends and realizes sometimes she maybe giving you false hopes. Perhaps she's just trying to be polite and not realizing that it's hurting your feelings. Just confront her and ask her what she wants.
2007-12-12 11:19:01 · answer #7 · answered by polonium-210 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to ask her as she is giving mixed messages..ask her if she wants the relationship to work and to put effort into it or its over...she will either pull her socks up and make the effort or tell you she wants to end it..good luck
2007-12-12 11:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by jess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if she blows you off and doesnt eturn your phone calls it sounds like she doesnt like you but if she does then she sound like an unrelable person so you might wanna let her go
2007-12-12 11:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hate to say it but maybe she lost interest in you
2007-12-12 11:17:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋