do guys care if your hymen is broken? i am still a virgin. do guys care one way or another?
2007-12-12 11:11:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys could care less if your hymen is broken. The youngest of guys likely don't care at all. They only want to get in your pants. The older guys may feel this way too, but are more likely to care about your more valuable aspects that create a true and lasting relationship.
Be careful here. Girls will give sex for love, boys will give love for sex. Either way, you are only fooling each other with your motives. Don't get intimate with any guy until after several dates. If he only is after the sex, he will hopefully get bored with you and move on to his next victim.
2007-12-12 11:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bad Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that your hymen being broken is a big deal to guys. Some girls, especially if they are athletic don't bleed the first time they have sex because their hymen already broke from the tremendous amount of activity of sports. Other girls have a low hymen which breaks easily, and could be broken during foreplay.
If the guy isn't a virgin then it shouldn't matter if your hymen is broken already. You can still tell if a girl is a virgin without blood.
2007-12-12 19:18:04 · answer #2 · answered by myluv115 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well certainly dont lose yourself even if the guy you like does care.. its ur life and your body and you teach people how to treat you.. if you let it known to people that you respect yourself they have 2 options.. to either respect you or to leave you.. same with the virginity think... if he doesnt respect that u want to remain a vergin that he should leave.. whether ur a virign or not shouldnt matter if your in a good healthy relationship with a guy.. the guy should respect that and wait till your ready.. and one day u will be just not now..
2007-12-12 19:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It matters not what their feelings are. Their feelings and thoughts on the matter are fickle at best.
What does matter however, are your feelings about self. Do not judge yourself on what guys(who are primarily single minded and selfish to their own desires) may think of your commitment to self. Let your choices to be you derive from what you want to be and who you want to become. Carry yourself with dignity, respect of self, and self confidence and most of all, a profound love of you.
Who cares what they think!
2007-12-12 19:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy who cares needs to learn to mind his own business. Whether or not you have had sex before is your business, not his.
2007-12-12 19:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy.
2007-12-12 19:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont care. but dont lose you virginity just for the sake of it. give it to somebody you know you love not just lust
2007-12-12 20:06:47 · answer #7 · answered by ROB W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They don't care.
The only thing they want is sex.
But, I do know that they mostly want girls who are not virgins.
So, the girl is expirenced.
2007-12-12 19:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think they care about that, i just think they care about knowing that he was your 1st!!
2007-12-12 19:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by M76 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it should matter. So many things can break it...
2007-12-12 19:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kaylyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋