I'm afraid he thinks i'm a psycho...just cus i send him dark and macabre poetries? just cus i threaten to hold hostage the things he gave me if he didn't come to see me (lately it was the electric fan)? just cus i call him only when i'm drunk? Just cus i send him MMS pictures of my wrist each time i cut? geesh! he's being paranoid and totally unfair! don't you agree?O.o
2007-12-12 10:55:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
D'OH! sorry Elaine...you caught me! =[
*runs away =P
2007-12-12 11:17:35 · update #1
@Mary
lolz
2007-12-12 12:25:53 · update #2
ummmm....try not holding his gifts hostage....
2007-12-12 11:04:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
why would you hold a electric fan hostage? and why would you send him pics of your wrist when you finished cuttin them? i dont mean to be rude but yea i would think that way too. those are things that you do not send guys or anyone at all. Besides you shouldnt be doin those things anyhow. the poetry is ok maybe hes not open to new things..but over all i think you should check ur actions and worry bout you before u think about what ur boyfriend thinks
2007-12-12 19:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
no i don't. I'm sorry the way i might put it but he has every right to be scared. why would u do that?if u continue behaving in this macabre way you will not only lose him , but every other bf u could ever have. Don't do those kinda of things if u don't want to lose him. I seriously hope u r joking about all this.
2007-12-12 19:00:26 · answer #3 · answered by WonderWoman 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's really sad that you can take something that is a serious problem and make it a joke. Some people have some real issues and it's really not cool that you are so humored by it.
And for the record ... no he is not being paranoid or unfair. Sorry sweets but you are just being mean!
2007-12-12 19:02:19 · answer #4 · answered by Stephmeister 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
i can only imagine the pain he feels, knowing you hurt yourself. i was on the side you're on for many years. it doesn't seem to be a big deal, and when others recoil in horror or disgust, it is pretty funny, isn't it? but if you are aware of what you are doing, it really is unfair to put others through that s***. actually, you should be grateful that he doesn't encourage the self-destructive behaviour. some guys would, you know.
2007-12-12 19:38:09 · answer #5 · answered by deva 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry if this offends you, but I think he's got good reason to stay away, I don't mean this bad but I think you definately need some help. (The wrist thing got me!)
2007-12-12 19:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by amandalovesjohn07 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This sort of behavior is nothing to joke about - you may think it's funny, but there are lots of people who actually behave like that, and they need your help, not your sarcasm.
2007-12-12 18:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Quit teasing the children, i.g.
2007-12-12 19:27:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mandy--relatively harmless 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, now you've gone too far!! Write a poem and stop making fun of people who have problems.
2007-12-12 19:12:46 · answer #9 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
no,he's not you are.he doesnt want to be around you when your doing that stuff to your self.i dated a girl who use to cut herself.i asked her to stop she said she cant help it.i didnt want to be with her if she keeps hurting herslf,it hurts me to see her hurt her self.so he doesnt want to see you hurt yourself.everytime you do that stuff,it may feel good to you but its like your cutting him.
2007-12-12 19:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by oracio z 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
to be honest, i'd be afraid of you too. i would think that i'd
be the next thing you cut.
2007-12-12 19:25:31 · answer #11 · answered by Mary S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋