when my boyfriend tells me im not good enough for him...?

Question

so my boyfriend told me i wasnt good enough for him... what should i do????

Answer 1

Forget him. It's obviously him who has the problem here. He obviously thinks allot of himself. People with notions of superiority are some of the most confused people that I've had to regulate in my time. Just stay away from him. Often this type of confusion can spread into other parts of a person's life, and you'd have to deal with it too, right beside him.

Maybe after he is educated in the nature of reality, he will wake up... but if he is grounded in his egotistical facade, this may never happen. You don't need somone with that sort of personality complex; it'll just cause you pain. The human animal doesn't live very long, you know? Don't waste your short time with him.

Answer 2

Take this in a constructive way...don't beat yourself up over it. So be it, he thinks your not good enough for him. I think you should tell him this is nice to know...don't argue or debate with him at all, but rather turn around and walk away without saying anything...don't give him the pleasure of any further comment or conversation. He obviously is full of himself and his thoughts and attitude are better known now than if you were married with kids. Consider yourself the lucky one because by his comment, you most certainly are. Best wishes to your future happiness. You'll be fine.

Answer 3

Slap on the face, knee between the legs and move on to a man who will appreciate you and don't even think about looking back. Oh by the way, make sure you do in front of other people and walk sedately out of the room.

Answer 4

HOLD ON A SECOND
I know everyone is telling you to break up with him, but when you see him tomorrow and see how he acts around you
based on his actions you can see if he actually meant it or was just joking
or he said it, but he might be really sorryy
look for signs that tell you these things - but if he still treats you like he's better than him, THAT'S when you end it

Answer 5

Tell him, "You're right, I'm not good enough - what I am is WAY too good for an emotionally abusive jerk like you. Bye!"
Dump him and move on to a guy who can treat you decently.

Answer 6

Say "On the contrary I'm too good for you!" and break it off obviously he has a low opinion of you and you don't deserve that, find someone who will put you on a pedistal and love him for it not this guy who tells you things like that!

Answer 7

there maybe some thing that is bothering him and he does know how to dell with so he may be blaming or taking it out on you .if this is not the case what can you expect down the road move on and some one will come along that is right for you life goes on

Answer 8

Tell him to go find someone that better then. Maybe he wil or maybe he'll regret himself for losing you, but in the long run you'll be better off without him. You don't need that kind of bf in your life.

Answer 9

If I were you, I would lose interest in a guy who would say something like that to me. I'd be afraid he would become violent towards me if he were in a stressful situation. He sounds dangerous to me. You are taking a terrible risk if you continue to see him. Try to find out if his dad beats his mom? Has he ever witnessed his dad slap his mom around? Or are they divorced? Why? Like father, like son. Take caution!!

Answer 10

Say goodbye before you start believing it yourself. DO NOT STAY! HE isn't good enough for YOU. Not if he can manipulate you into staying with him because you "Have to". Trust me if you stay you will start believing it and your life will become a horrible lie and you will be miserable.