what do you think i should do about this guy, who is always cheating on me but says he loves me. i mean i really love him and i dont want to let him go. we have a great sex life and love life and we are great friends. its just, that when im with him he always gets calls from other girls, and they are always with him when im not there. i have no idea what to do.
2007-12-12 09:19:45 · 17 answers · asked by sexy_ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you gotta couple of choices
you can either:
1) confront him. figure out if he really is doing all of this and if he doesnt seem to be truthful..then..go to number 2
2) FORGET ABOUT HIM!
you deserve better!
by the way, do i know you?
2007-12-12 10:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by don't gεt mad, gεt glad™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about we turn the tables here... Let's say you are the "other girl'... And this guy is boinking you, downing his real girlfriend, so that you'll think you are something special... You see him with his real gf - & wonder if she knows you just f_cked him a couple of hours ago? You laugh & say what an idiot!! The real gf is aloof & thinks she is totally in love! You see this & continue to put her down because, who in their right mind would actually believe anything this "loser" had to say?? You don't feel sorry for her, you think she must be desperate & have low self esteem to stay with a guy who has for one, just been with you... then you think...hhhhmmm you know, I wonder if I could be pregnant? or wow! we didn't use a condom, I hope SHE doesn't have any STD's...!!!
Think about it!
2007-12-12 09:29:30 · answer #2 · answered by T. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people ask questions like this? how can you say you have a good "love" life if he is cheating on you? look, you spelled out all the reasons why you shouldn't be with him and yet you are on this board searching for someone to tell you it will be ok and he will change. sorry to break it to you but he isn't going to change and you know you should leave him.
but you are going to do what you wanted in the first place.
2007-12-12 09:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by brendan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's willing to be intimate with other girls while he is with you, what makes you think this is something that will go the distance?
He is only saying he loves you to keep what he has going.
Decide whether you can deal with him being with other girls, or drop his destructive habits from your life and find someone more faithful and TRULY loving.
2007-12-12 09:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by STPabroad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on whether you like the idea of an open relationship. If you don't like him seeing other girls tell him. See what his response is. It may be for the best that you just end it as he'll never be loyal to you. But that's just my opinion.
2007-12-12 09:23:50 · answer #5 · answered by I see you! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a better person.
Some people have this tendency to be polygamous. You must not let him use you. Everyone says that heves his GF but what about the responsibility?
Good luck!
2007-12-12 09:23:58 · answer #6 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is being treated like that really worth your time? It's a recipe for disaster, get out before you end up hurting more!
2007-12-12 09:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by tom_gpp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats tough! My girlfriend dumped me when I did stuff like that and I told her 50million times there was nothin going on, but back to you. This is where you really have to trust him, and just talk to him and see if he does REALLY love you!
2007-12-12 09:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seduce him one night, then pretend ur gun have sum f*cked up sex with props n sh1t, and handcuff him to the bed, then take his b0ner and cut it, hell start feeling light headed, then chop off his nipples and lips and use sand paper to rough him down, then put vinegar all over his body, then take a freshly cooked corn dog and shove it up his a$$, then cut his ball sack open and take out his nuts and give em to the squirrel, then engage in sexual activities with the squirrel
2007-12-12 14:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by Random G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, DUMP his *** ! If he would feel the same way you feel about him he wouldn`t be cheating.
Do make sure that he`s really cheating though...
Good luck.
2007-12-12 09:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by joey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋