i know i shouldnt say that all men are like this, so im not generalizing, but why do some men not care if a women if married to somebody else? every guy that has asked me out doesnt seem to care. i'll tell them im married and they keep asking me. is it because alot of married girls are going out with lots of guys now, and im just naive? or do these guys just not care. i thought telling somebody you're married was a good way out of telling somebody no. i just want to know if this is some kind of new trend thats going on (married people dating other people)
2007-12-12 07:55:31 · 17 answers · asked by pickles11119 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont hang out in bars lol mostly for that reason. its just guys that i occasionally see now and then. some of them i dont know at all. it shocked me at first i didnt know so many people were like that
2007-12-12 08:04:10 · update #1
The guy's that keep asking to after you told them your married are Cheaters and don't see marriage serious.
coming from a guy.
2007-12-12 07:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by 6AmericanEagle9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys could careless; that is what most guys believe and if they score or get sex that is all that matters; it is up to the girl or woman to say no and if he still continues tell him you will report his behavior to personnel if you are at a different place not your job just tell your husband. Guys just want to have sex and if there is a willing partner the place or type of girl/woman is not an option they just want the sex. Marriage to these guys is just something to stop people from talking about their sexual behavior---"he will never get married because he is such a pig". Next time a guy moves in tell them you will be praying for his soul; he just might leave you alone.
2007-12-12 16:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Lifeline 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure either it could be that being married is a turn on they may assume since your married you have kids and then they can say they slept with a M.I.L.F. or they just know that if you do anything with them they will have no strings attached and can go there merry way cause your married. Some guys just want to see if they have what it takes to sleep with a married women you know to see how much game they have or dont have sometimes they are testing their bounderies.
Thats just what i think
2007-12-12 16:02:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy continues to show interest after you've told him you're married, he doesn't care that you are. He's assuming that if you are willing to mess around, he has an easy "out" and that you are only interested in sex, as he is. It's sad, but a lot of infidelity is occurring these days, from both sides. Another reason he persists, is the challenge. We always want what we can't have.
2007-12-12 16:02:30 · answer #4 · answered by Tim R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are hanging out in the wrong places, possibly night clubs and bars. Normal men will respect the fact that you are married, unless you have a tendency to flirt thereby giving them the signal that you available, even if married.
I am not saying this is the case, however you need to look at your actions, where you are hanging out, and whether you are around the wrong type of people.
2007-12-12 15:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by 10SNE1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a new trend and its stupid because when I find out that a guy is married I move on its about winning. I would hang with your husband because you dont want it to be where its flattering if you know what I mean
2007-12-12 16:00:47 · answer #6 · answered by Chloe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defnitely not a new trend. guys like to ask married women out, because think of it, it is a safe date. no responsibilities, no commitment, just s**. also there is the sense of doing something you don't want to be caught at. and on the woman's side, perhaps there is something missing at home. in any event, it isn't new, and no, we do not know how to take no as an answer.
2007-12-12 16:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are probably taking a chance that you are one of the married women that cheat on their husband.....this is better for the man because they know you are involved with someone else so they can have sex with you and not have to worry about you getting emotionally involved with them or messing up their marriage also.
2007-12-12 15:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by My Sharona 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because some people (not all) have lost their respect for what Marriage actually stands for and therefor commit adultery and infidelity on a daily basis.
You just have to find people who respect and honor marriage.
2007-12-12 16:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling them about your husband, talk about he is the man of your dreams and how happy you are. If your trying to be their friend invite them over or to coffee with you and your husband.
2007-12-12 16:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by HildaS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋