im dating a guy for a month now. is it too early to have sex with him? whats the average time someone wait until they should have sex?
2007-12-12 07:35:16 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh im 18 btw
2007-12-12 07:41:33 · update #1
honestly id only wait bout 2 weeks..but thats if youve gone on several dates..like 3-4 times a week..but if you've dated him for a month but havent really gone out with him alot.. and theres only text messages and phone conversation id say wait a little longer.
2007-12-12 07:39:44 · answer #1 · answered by ledisxo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
until they're thoroughly educated on how possible, mathematically, it is to get pregnant, taking into account several popular forms of birth control. the biggest problem with teens having sex is that they aren't educated about how many ways you can get pregnant while using accepted methods of birth control. until you understand this, it's not a good idea to have sex, because you could easily get pregnant.
I would wait until marriage. if you can't see yourself married in 5 years, it's probably not a good idea to have sex now.
if you can't wait until marriage, try waiting until college.
keep in mind that you're not a legal consenting adult until you're 18.
also, in line with the first thing I said, if you don't want to get pregnant, you can always give your boyfriend a bj. I'm sure he'll appreciate it. if you don't know what a bj is, do yourself a favor, and wait until you're older.
I'm only saying all this because it's a shitty thing when you make a mistake when you're young because you can't undo it, even if eventually you know better.
my last line: visualize being pregnant. visualize being pregnant every time you visualize having sex. they're practically the same thing.
2007-12-12 07:52:28 · answer #2 · answered by rozefyre86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your age and the level of maturity in the relationship. If both of you are ready to take that step and willing to face the consequences then it's not too early. But just be sure you're not having sex with him to make him love you more, guys usually lose respect for girls who give it up quickly. Like I said it depends where you are emotionally in the relationship.
2007-12-12 07:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by HawaiiGurly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any set time it is up to you. If you feel you are ready and want to expand your relationship with him then go for it. I have had sex on the first date and on up from there. Some guys I just do not feel like having sex with them and I fo not do it. So it is your decision.
2007-12-12 07:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Kayla S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him until you know him. You would be surprised what people can and will hide from the person that they are dating. You also should find out about his sexual preferences too. He could be into something kinky you do not want anything to do with. I didn't even know my husband was addicted to porn until we were married almost two years. He hid that from me while we were dating and some other things that were heart breaking.
2007-12-12 07:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can only tell u from past experiences ive rushed into it and i have waited i can tell u that the one i waited for is the one that has lasted. call it a coincidence or not but u gotta be sure the two of u have the same expectations of each other.
good luck
2007-12-12 07:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by girly girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how old you are. If you aren't 18 yet, you should probably wait till you are.
If you are over 18, and you like him... You have already waited too long. - so tonight's the night !!
2007-12-12 07:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id like to say when you ruly feel comfortable. But the way men take advanage of things I've personally implemented a new "2-month" plan...should be 3..but not sure if i can do thay lol)
Do what makes you feel comfortable. But do it knowing he feels the same way you do.
2007-12-12 07:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, we can't answer that for you. It's all up to you. Don't let him pressure you if your not ready. If he cares about you, he'll wait. I wouldn't want to have sex with someone who I felt didn't want to or wasn't comfortable having sex with me... thats like a step away from date rape.
2007-12-12 07:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by jakenyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should wait after 5 or + months to do that.
if that guy came for only sex, he won't have the opportunity to go early.
and i have that question for you, why do you want to have sex with him so early?
2007-12-12 07:40:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋