i have two problems with flirting #1) not really sure how/good at it #2) i chicken out
there is this guy that i really like and i had the perfect opportunity to flirt/talk with him. but of course i chickened out. my friends dont understand why i do and they tell me to just talk to him because pretty soon it'll be too late. i don't know how to tho without choking and chickending out! i just get so nervous that he wont like me or him or his friends will think i'm wierd... grrr!!! tomorrow i'll have another opportunity in art class (not as good of one as the first, but w/e) does anyone have any pointers so i won't be as nervous tomorrow? his ship is sailing and i need to catch it!
2007-12-12 07:29:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i understand that i have to just go for it but i don't know what to say to start a conversation. i get too nervous...
2007-12-12 07:35:22 · update #1
well since it's art class ask to borrow something like a pencil or ruler (whatever goes along with the projects ur working on)....compliment him on his work and just start a conversation about art....if he seems to be getting bored talk to him about other things that go along with art...say u guys are talking about art move the subject to museums and how boring they can be them talk about what bores u then u can talk about what interests u.....u just need to find a way to go with the natural flow of the conversation and not force it. if u get the impression he doesn't like u find an excuse to walk away first say something like "damn i should really go do my work now "
2007-12-12 07:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by hmmm...interesting 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am like that too. I have awesome confidence with everything BUT that. When it comes to talking to guys I'm a mess! You just have to think of how much you like him and force yourself to talk to him. You don't have to flirt if you make it obvious enough that you like him. And even if you look really stupid and choke up, if he's a good guy then he'll appreciate you trying and maybe he'll pitch in with the flirting ;D
2007-12-12 15:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by livvness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about the fact that he's so cute...and that you like him...just think of him as any other person and maybe lean over in art class and tell him what he's drawing/painting looks really awesome and that you really like what he's doing. Pick something specific, and try not to ask him questions that he can say 'yes' or 'no' to, try to get him to open up to you a little...ask him questions that he really has to reply to.
2007-12-12 15:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by aloha_lea413 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y do u need to flirt wit him at the first place?u cant talk in a proper way or do u hv difficulties in communicating?just ask him a question or a hello n if he is ok thn the conversation wil flow on its own..if ur goin to talk in a flirting way, mayb u will thn turn him off.
2007-12-12 15:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by red head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him like you would anyone else. Be yourself. Just because he's "special" to you, try to think he's just another guy and no big deal. He'll like you better for it too.
2007-12-12 15:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by Flys with the Eagle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to be nervous anyway.
So just start talking to him
once you actually get to know him
you'll feel better about it
2007-12-12 15:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Elly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself.....bat ur eyes, twist ur hair, say funny/cute things....just kinda do what feels rite at the moment...and dont worry, worst case senario he doesnt like u back, i know u think thats bad, but at least u finally did this, and trust me there will be plenty more chances and plenty more guys ;)
2007-12-12 15:34:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 me it is easier to flirt if i know he will flirt back so next time you talk to him scoot closer to him 4 at least 6 sec. then back up a step if he gets closer to you he is intrested and thats when you make your move.
2007-12-12 15:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by strech 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start a friendly conversation with him and go from there.
if you really like him, you could suggest lunch or dinner
together. good luck.
2007-12-12 15:33:06 · answer #9 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it its not hard...what does he like talk to him about that or sompliment him ....
2007-12-12 15:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by DeeJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋