Ive got a girl mate who's going out with this guy but she doesn't really like him too much as in attraction, he treats her well and is really nice to her but she says that she doesn't even kiss him or anything, she said she wouldn't be bothered if he finished her yet she wont finish him.
What is going on in her head ladies??
2007-12-12 03:27:52 · 18 answers · asked by blitzed200 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good answers here but what kind of issues do you think she has??
2007-12-12 03:36:21 · update #1
Some people, particularly women, want to get to know a person before they are comfortable with physical signs of affection; others are very affectionate from the start.
It may be that she has had bad experiences in other relationships; she may want to feel appreciated for her company before things go further; or it may be just that she likes things to go slowly
It is also possible that she does not feel physically attracted to him but enjoys his company and is happy for the relationship to continue as it is, as a friendly one. As long as both of them are happy with that, it's not a problem.
You have to take people as individuals; everyone is different.
It sounds as if the right man for your female friend is someone who will value her for her personality and company and wait for the physical side of things to develop more slowly.
2007-12-12 03:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bridget F 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Some girls just like the feeling of having someone around. Maybe she's afraid of not being able to find anyone else, or maybe she cares about this person and doesn't want him to get hurt. She might prefer it if he ends it rather than her.
2007-12-12 11:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Yasmin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with 'Buff'
The girl your talking about is settling for this other guy in order to not be alone. Life is too short to settle. She needs to get out there and find someone that shes at least attracted too.
2007-12-12 11:31:39 · answer #3 · answered by MayMay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is too much of a wimp herself to break up with him, as she would feel bad and so does not have the guts to do it.She would rather he broke up with her as she does not want to hurt his feelings as he has treated her so good!
2007-12-12 11:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Ben T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she doesn't want to break up with him and break his â¥
it may also be that she just wants to settle and is afraid that she can't get any better. a lot of girls don't have much confidence even though they may be really pretty.
..or maybe he is rich and she is a goldigger $$$$$
2007-12-12 11:37:02 · answer #5 · answered by give me something to believe. ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some people feel its better to be with someone they dont love or even like than be alone. Especially this time of year
2007-12-12 11:31:16 · answer #6 · answered by ShaggyShepherd 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she probably doesnt wanna be alone that is probably why she is sticking by the mans side
talk to her about it and tell her to talk to her boyfriend
communication is key in a good relationship.
tell her to talk to him and see what he says
she might be happier in the end
2007-12-12 11:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by Caroline 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not feeling him! It must be a vibe - believe me, Ive been there. He may be nice to her, but she probably wants something else.
2007-12-12 11:31:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is feeling "safe" in this situation and does not want to change
2007-12-12 11:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by spellbound1122 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmmm......i usually know what ma ladies are saying...but this one is wierd....you dont find someone sexually attractive...dont be with them..SIMPLE.
She probably dont want to be alone.
2007-12-12 11:33:55 · answer #10 · answered by clarrissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋