Your question is interesting.
I am man and I feel pretty much the opposite. My closest friends are almost all women and I find it easier to build trust with women.
Maybe we are all a bit scared of ourselves and find it easier to build trust with the other gender?
2007-12-12 03:33:20
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answered by doug k 5
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Unfortunately, sometimes women are more devious in a backhanded way then men. I notice in my office, women seem to be in more of a competition. It's sad. I have found that a woman will back stab alot faster than a man.
Perhaps it's just the nature of the beast, but it is still a sad thing. I am a woman and I choose not to be that way.
Keep your chin up. There are absolutely some good women out there too. Maybe you can relax in your meetings and make a friend or two. :)
2007-12-12 11:30:40
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answered by ? 4
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I'm the same way. I figured it was because I have four brothers and no sisters and had just gotten used to hanging out with my brothers and their friends. But I think It's because women are very competitive with each other, which can cause a lot of jealousy and cattiness. When I went back to school I had a class with NO men. Only women. It was horrible. Waaay too much raging pms and backstabbing. I ended up quitting the class lol.
2007-12-12 12:30:23
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answered by uh ya whatever 2
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Here's my OPINION - and it's just an opinion. May be right, could be wrong; But perhaps men are like pack hunters. They get along better than women because women seem to seek the protection of a man, and regard other women as a threat.
I think it's natural for you to feel uneasy around a large group of women, especially since you feel they could be judging you. It seems you have been judging them too.
But women can offer you a point of view no man can. We men think differently. Not better, DIFFERENT. That's all.
Anyway, I understand you feeling more comfortable around a group of men. Large groups of people of any single sex always scares me.
Anyway, good luck with your treatment. Since it is your treatment, perhaps you should look for a more suitable group. One that puts you at ease, and will let you begin the healing process.
Love :)
2007-12-12 11:35:10
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answered by tercir2006 7
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Yep-I've been there. Women can be very catty. There is nothing wrong with going to a mixed AA meeting where there may be a more balanced ratio of both sexes.
Most of the time women only go to women's meetings because they feel safer with women for some reason or another.
2007-12-12 11:52:09
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answered by Big Bear 7
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I am a woman and the majority of women are back stabbing bisnatches. They are Back stabbing, jealous, gossiping females! I have acquaintances that are female but few true friends that I totally trust. Guy friends are easy to trust. Many years ago in high school most of my buddies were guys it was like a group of of 4 girls and 7 guys.
2007-12-12 11:46:34
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answered by Kat 5
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As many times as I've been dumped on, yeah, I find it almost impossible to trust women anymore.
2007-12-12 11:46:23
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answered by Anonymous
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If men have a diagreement and we want to fight the guy we do it openely - the display of strength and courage to fight is important to assert power. Plotting and scheming is not natural to the male species.
2007-12-12 11:55:18
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answered by Existentialist_Guru 5
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I don't trust PEOPLE in general.
2007-12-12 11:31:05
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answered by Anonymous
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yeah women are scandalous
they do probably talk about you when you're not around
i'm sure of it.
you should be self concious. because you suck
2007-12-12 12:50:17
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answered by Anonymous
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