me and the ex have been split for 7 months. he is with someone else, and we have tried many times to meet up but we havent. We then met up, and he said that he has been avoiding me, cos he's frightened that something will happen between us. He's said that he has thought about me alot, and has been at the point of asking to come around and see me. He also said that I make him nervous. He has even turned up where i work, looking for me, as he said that he wanted to be with me. he said that we will be together as we can't help ourselves or resist each other.
Are we both fighting/denying feelings for each other?
2007-12-12 03:19:39 · 29 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It certainly sounds like he is, and the fact that you're writing this suggests you are. He needs to stop seeing the other person though, just for her sake.
2007-12-12 03:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by Maria 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is not enough substantial info to answer your question.
i.e: does he show you what he has learned he must do differently this time? Were does he see what exeactly went wrong with you two the first time around and how does he expect this will go differently? Is he afraid of commitment and therefor now also cannot commit to his current relationship by keeping trailing after you. in other words are you now being used as an excuse instead of a reason before? I would like to have answers to that before I would commit myself back again in a former realtionship that already failed me once.
Good luck!
2007-12-12 11:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Hansje R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you split in the first place .....Maybe he is afraid that what ever went on will happen again ...I think you both have a chance just talk to him to see what went wrong and sort it ......stop fighting your feelings for each other its Xmas time of goodwill ...merry Xmas Good luck x
2007-12-12 11:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It rarely works the second time. Most of us don't change that much.
My thinking is you had a good sex life and want that back.
Seven months and he's already in a new relationship? That's pretty soon.
2007-12-12 11:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by pinky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what do you think will happen to the other girl when he gets in your pants? He'll keep seeing her that's what. You'll be the other woman he's seeing behind her back. Dont bother, tell him to get lost. He just wants a bit on the side.
2007-12-12 11:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Wonderwoman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all y did u break up the first time?? If the reason was a bad one then i would jus move on...If it wasnt then there still may be a chance but if he has another GF then he didnt take him very long to move on...so consider that!
2007-12-12 11:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
None. Sorry. But if he wanted to be with you, he would. I'm telling you as a guy; he's just trying to play both ends. Forget the whole thing.
2007-12-12 11:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Judge and Jury 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it... If he's with another girl and he STILL cannot forget you, then it's obvious that he has feelings for you and only you. I think you guys are denying your feelings for each other, he needs to drop this girl, because he's not being fair to her and you should try to rekindle your relatioship with him.
2007-12-12 11:22:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't really know but why did you split in the first place ??
plus if it did not work out 7 months ago, why do you think its going to work out now??
2007-12-12 11:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by johny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes with someone else...and hes trying to see you...I think he just might miss the sex or your company...but if hes with someone else then why would he be trying to hang out with you...unless hes a cheater...and why would you want a man like that.....Just something to think about
2007-12-12 11:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋