Its been 6 months since my heart was used like a rag. I fell in love with a girl she left me for another guys and burned me bad. I had a couple suicide attempts back in March and April. At times I think I am over it. Then at others I find my self thinking about what shes doing etc...I dont love her any more...I think? How can I love some one that used me so bad?
I would not sad. I do not know how I feel. When I think about her I only hope she eventually got whats coming to her. To be burned by some one like she burned me. Then I think well lets said she did get burned. Will I stop thinking about her? I answered, No because I want to make sure she did stay suffering. I really have no clue what to do, its really driving me nuts. Will I ever stop thinking about her? I tried dating but even then I think what if this girl plays me like her. Please guys any good advice will help I am even sometimes loosing sleep.
2007-12-12 02:56:24 · 3 answers · asked by Slim 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I have no plans in killing my self what so ever. I can not not even think about it, because I always think there has to be another way to do something. There HAS to be another way for this other than wait till time passes. ANY THING! Did they invent that little pen that makes your forget stuff like in Men in black?
2007-12-12 03:12:17 · update #1
It sounds like you already are starting to make your way back to solid ground on your own. You've made the first major step which is to realize that if she treated you like crud by leaving you for another guy, then she isn't worth your time. She made the decision easy for you by showing you her true colors and taking off. It's better that she did it now that 5 years into the future when you had even more emotional energy and time invested. It's natural when you have strong feelings about another person to continue thinking about them for awhile. Quit wasting energy on that though. Put that energy into doing stuff for yourself that you enjoy.
I know it doesn't seem like it now, but you're the one that came out on top. Now you're not stuck with a person who is willing to drag your heart through the mud. She's the one who lost a good person and will be sorry for it later. As for dating new girls and worrying about them treating you the same way, just don't let yourself get attached right now. Ride the waves for awhile and have a good time. Let them know you're not wanting to get too serious yet. Take the attitude that if they treat you like crap then you don't have time for them and move on.
This dating thing is a hit and miss deal. Most of the people you go out with won't quite mesh with you, and you just have to move on. Eventually you'll find someone who does mesh and who will be willing to work with you to keep the relationship going.
Keep your head up high, dude. Be strong and don't let other people drag you down.
2007-12-12 03:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by jobel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need professional help if you've had suicide attempts. Yahoo! Answers is not going to cut it. You've got a serious mental health issue going on here. It is normal to be upset about getting dumped, but this is extreme and unhealthy. Get thee to a doctor!!
Good luck!
2007-12-12 03:04:20 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm a girl, but i can say that some girls are like that, they'll do anything to hurt people, so i try to stay away from them. you'll eventually forget her, just keep your mind on something else, and try to think of the good things about girls, not how some of them are total bitches... you'll get over her, possibly without even knowing it... Good Luck!
2007-12-12 04:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by X_Emo_Princess_X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋