I loaned my female friend who I have a crush on my laptop it contained some interesting images of me & my ex?

Question

Hi all, my Female friend who I have a huge crush on borrowed my Laptop because her Computer crashed and she had to finish her research paper. Well I absent mindedly gave it to her without deleting some pics lets say were for my eyes and my ex girlfriend only. And on top of it, my friend sent me an E-Mail pic of my Crush that loaned my Laptop a pic of her in her Bathing Suit while she went to Spring Break. Right now she has my Laptop, do I just cross my fingers and hope she's not nosey enough to browse at my files, or start running towards her dorm room and get it back for 2 Minutes and deleting it?

Answer 1

I would wait to see if she starts acting different towards you you will know that she was being nosey and you will have to do some damage control. but if she like most women she will be nosey and then she will be mad at herself for being nosey b/c she will remember what her mama sd when you snoop you may not like what you find in the end.

Answer 2

Try to get it back because curiosity is natural and if she sees the pictures folder she'll open it. But you're probably too late cos while you've been on here asking what to do and waiting for answers, she has probably opened up the folder and seen the pictures. So start running and good luck.

Answer 3

of course she is going to go through your computer...so go over there ask to borrow it for a couple of minutes and delete or move the files or pics. Otherwise it could get into the wrong hands.

Answer 4

It really does not matter because everyone has a past and that is part of yours. Does she even know you like her? I hate the fact that my bf still has pics of his ex stored away but hey that is his memories I would never get rid of mine. Let it go if she sees it she sees it and if not well hey good. When she ask if she ask just assure her that is in your past and you want her to be apart of your future.

Answer 5

You could let it go, but if you plan on loaning it to her in future and you wish to retain private content like that you could possibly consider taking some steps to ensure your privacy.

for example there are compression programs available (e.g winzip and winrar links at the bottom) that allow you to password protect archives. You could copy sensitive content such as those images into one of these archives and password protect it so that she wont be able to view them.

hope this helps,

Answer 6

shes of course a girl... i might say take excitement in her as a chum and its especially glaring which you have a weigh down on her.. i'm particularly sorry that she could basically be right this moment yet theres not something you may particularly do basically stay a genuine chum to her and perhaps she would be able to come around she could be bi yet i does not be constructive so definite basically take excitement in which you have her as a chum you dont prefer to lose that.

Answer 7

I have to admit I'd be a bit curios of what ont he HD if I were in the situation, you could always check to see if she looked at them when you got it back

Answer 8

Let it go.

If she's going to snoop around on your laptop when you've been kind enough to loan it to her, she's not the kind of girl you'd want to date.

Answer 9

if you think the pictures are not something that she should see and that those picture may also have a negative impression about you to her then i suggest u ask her to give it back to you can delete those pictures from it.

Answer 10

hmm God save your laptop! dont you trust your friend,if not then call her and tell her not to sneak in your files.