both my older and younger sister are model skinny and have perfect complexions and and hair that can be styled into whatever they want. i must admit i am not THAT skinny but all of my friends yell at me telling me i am NOT fat. but the problem is that my sisters are making fun of me and want nothing to do with me because of it. i am like tender-hearted and a bit insecure and it's driving me crazy to the point where i cry myself to sleep at night. what to do?
2007-12-12 01:55:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get a new persona and re-invent yourself.......
Be the one with the dazzing personality, who can make everyone laugh - there are women out there who are CONFIDENT, LOUD and FUNNY without being particulary pretty or skinny.
Belive me I have nasty spiteful sisters, just ignore them and be YOU.
I guessing your sisters rely on their looks, but trust me pretty girls with no personality become boring after a while. Where as us average girls with personality are the ones who people want to be friends with.
If you need inspiration, just look at beyonce - she is much bigger than the other 2 in destinys child, but she is the one who every1 notices.....y? Because she has confidence and presense.
Don't worry about your weight (y would you want to be all thin and lanky when you can be beautiful and curvy? ), work on building your confidence.
Enjoy who you are.
Dress to look your best
YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE CONFIDENT AND HAPPY
2007-12-12 04:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by Night_nurse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sophie - Model skinny perfection does not last forever. How sad that they are "perfect" and have to put you down to make themselves feel worthy.
You sound like a beautiful girl and more important, you have an inner beauty. Most tender hearted people do. Ignore them and be who you are and become the person you want to be. Remember, pysical beauty is only skin deep and sooner or later it goes away, but their ugly seems to the bone. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. They are the one's with the problem.
2007-12-12 02:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by blondspitfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your sisters are immature! And I seriously hope you don't let them make you sick...And I'm sure you know what I mean when I say that! I think that you should try to ignore them because obviously you have to jerks for sisters...Honey try not to pay them any mind...And model skinny is not always healthy! You have to know that beauty lies within...And I'm sure your beautiful inside and out!
2007-12-12 02:01:46 · answer #3 · answered by e&t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Skinny is not neccesarily beautiful. You need to be happy with yourself. I have all this advice in my head but don't know exactly how to put it. The most important thing you should know is that your sisters will keep saying things to you as long as they see they get to you. They are picking at you because they too are not happy with themselves. Miserable people like to make others miserable too.
2007-12-12 01:59:40 · answer #4 · answered by ChristinaS 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, honeyyyy. Dont ever do that to yourself. I am so insecure, but lately I have learned that I need to love myself. I see myself differently then other people see me. I think I see myself as person who has bad skin and is starting to gain weight. I need to love myself, and so do you. Lately, I have seen that confidence is what makes you reallyyyy good looking. Your friends probably arent lying. You arent fat, its just its a fact that you see yourself differently/worse then how others see you.
2007-12-12 01:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people that make fun of other people are actually suffering from some form of insecurity themselves. don't beat yourself up. apparently you already know that you aren't fat. and just so you know, a lot of people who are super skinny aren't as heatlhy as slender people who aren't! don't pay any attention to what they say other than to tell them you are perfectly happy with yourself the way you are and they should just back off. happy holidays!
2007-12-12 02:02:41 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Kitty Katt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sisters are like that. Frankly if they are judging you on how you look, you don't want to have anything to do with them anyway.
Ignore their comments and stop crying. Get a backbone and do something about your self esteem. No one is going to do it for you.
You are who you are, and that's good enough.
2007-12-12 02:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sisters are just being immature brats. You are beautiful and dont compare yourself to them. Tell them to grow up and that there is much more inside that counts. Please dont cry over this. Be the better half, even though it may be hard.
2007-12-12 02:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Doz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't worry about what other ppl think about you!...your sisters are so wrong if they treat u like that! If your not comfortable with yourself maybe try going out and buying new clothes or either start exercising, new hair do, little things like that always boost my confidence!!!!
2007-12-12 01:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by Staci W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your parents or a counselor or something. They shouldn't be talking down you to like that. Especially cus they are your sisters.
Definitely know that God LOVES you. God doesn't make mistakes. :D
2007-12-12 01:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by Lydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋