Ok, I have recently asked alot of questions about problems I am having with my step daughter.And I have gotten some wondeful advice. So thanks to all of you for the advice.But I do have another question. Heres a link to my last question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AqPyJ9Dm2myT_fSan0jaBWPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20071211121631AARwQ2u
Besides everything thats going on, my step daughter trying to pysically harm my son I have done all the advice people have given me. But, my step daughters Mom will not let her call me her step-mom. Ok, everyone has told me to include her and treat her as my own, and I do and always have. But her Mom is telling her different. Her Mom doesnt want her to be close to me, she doesnt want me to include her or treat her as my own, or as family. She convices her that its not right, and she doesnt have a step-mom. I cant talk to her Mom, she's impossible to talk to, all she does is yell and scream, and no matter what shes right. CONTINUED>>>>>
2007-12-11
16:14:19
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Pregnancy & Parenting
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Well my step daughter is very direspectful to me, my parents, grandparents, brothers, etc. the whole family. I have 2 handicapped brothers. Her Mom told her to stay away from them because they are retarded and cant talk right. My step daughter is even very disrespectful and cruel to my 80 year old Grandmother. People tell me that its me, Im the one that needs to change, and I need to include her as much as possible. But how is that even possible if her own Mother is telling her different?? I have done evrything possible. But its not me, its her Mom and Dad. She had started calling me Mom, and her Mom lit into her and told her to never do it again. Well, I can understad that her Mom doesnt want to fell replaced, which is not the case, but she should be happy I would treat her daughter that way. So what am I supposed to do now?? To all you people who tell me to include her more and treat her as my own, if I do its almost like it gets worse because her Mother tells her its wrong.
2007-12-11
16:20:03 ·
update #1
So what now??
2007-12-11
16:20:14 ·
update #2
My husband works, and doesnt do anything about it. No matter what I do, it doesnt work, as far as disapline, trust me, Ive tried everything, and he wont disapline.he lets her get her way
2007-12-11
16:21:26 ·
update #3
Oh, I wont let her harm him, thats why I refuse to watch her now if hes not home. I will not take any chances.
2007-12-11
16:23:09 ·
update #4
Sorry about it being so long, but Im in desperate need of help.
2007-12-11
16:31:15 ·
update #5