MY GIRLFRIEND AND I LIVE 45MINS AWAY FROM EACH OTHER. WE BEEN TOGETHER SINCE AUGUST AND I HAVE NOT SEEN HER SINCE AUGST YEAH I KNOW CRAZY HUH. SHE MAKES UP ALL TYPES OF EXCUSE WHEN WE ARE SUPPOSE TO HOOK UP. I FEEL AS IF SHE'S HIDING A LOT BUT I'M SO CONFUSED. I TOLD MYSELF IF I HAVEN'T SEEN HER BEFORE 2008 COMES IN IT'S OVER WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK I SHOULD DO PLEASE HELP ME.
2007-12-11 13:58:52 · 31 answers · asked by Crystal P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DON'T THINK YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND, BUT A GIRL WHO IS AFRAID TO TELL YOU "NO"...
WHY WAIT 3 MORE WEEKS? SHE IS NOT LIKELY TO COME AROUND AND YOU MIGHT AS WELL USE THAT TIME LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO SPEND NEW YEAR'S WITH.
HEY, LOOK AT THAT. MY CAPS KEY IS STUCK TOO...
2007-12-11 14:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Man, how old are you? Here are some signs it was over a long time ago.
1) You live 45 minutes away and haven't seen each other for 4 months.
2) She makes up excuses to not see you
3) Her Myspace has conflicting information than what she is telling you.
I'd end it before you become too obsessed. If she's interested she'll find a way to see you. There's nothing worse than being single for the New Year and that is just getting dumped before the New Year.
2007-12-11 14:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by garciatdg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm something is wrong. You haven't seen her since August? It doesn't sound like you are a very high priority in her life. 45 minutes is not that long. I think you need to have a serious talk with her and find out what's going on. Unless she can start seeing you more, you should move on. Good luck.
2007-12-11 14:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the clues are there but you are trying not to see them......think about why she is making excuses and why she doesn't want to hook up...dude she is playing you and is too weak to tell you the truth that she is no longer interested in the relationship.
If I were you I'd bring your deadline to New Years Eve...that way if you haven't seen her or spoken to her you can have a great night out on new years and maybe hook up with another girl ;-)
good luck
2007-12-11 14:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by wogaridginie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had something like this happen to me about 9 years ago. We started seeing less and less of each other because of the distance but that was GREATER than 45 miles..... then it was just over......
a year later I found out he was engaged.... (as far as I know it wasn't until after we stopped dating) but he was always going "to see his brother" every time we were to meet to see a movie.
If she was really into you she wouldn't make up all sorts of excuses in seeing you 45 minutes isn't that far.... I used to drive about that EVERY DAY to go to school or to work....
2007-12-11 14:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Artist Wanna Be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's making up excuses to not see you then there's a problem. She lives 45 mins away? Maybe she has a boyfriend.. I don't know. One way or another, bad news. I gotta agree with allie on this one. Dump her. Be sure to tell her why though. Oh.. and don't be nice about it either, or you'll regret it later. Good luck.
2007-12-11 14:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by Pink Panther 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A 45 minute commute is not much when you are in love. She probably doesn't feel the same way about you. If you don't see each other and she has no desire to see you, then there isn't a relationship...at least not enough of one for you to be losing sleep over.
2007-12-11 14:02:56 · answer #7 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off. I drove 45 minutes every other day to see a girl
who I was in a relationship with and that was ontop of 50 hour work weeks. Sounds like hes cheating on you.
2007-12-11 14:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Askepios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait til 08? She is sending you messages LOUD AND CLEAR.....
You are at least that intuitive (you picked up on those "crazy excuses" to avoid you) - there are plenty of other gals out there that would be happy to have someone like you...
Do you not think more of yourself - Are you not worthy of someone who WANTS TO MAKE AN EFFORT TO BE WITH YOU?????
Quit wasting your time!
2007-12-11 14:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you've been with her for this long. How can you call her your girlfriend if you haven't seen her for three months? I'd break up with her now - she's probably not interested if she hasn't made any effort to see you at all.
2007-12-11 14:02:02 · answer #10 · answered by benjamin_bdb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it's no good sitting there, write a letter, say, well are we a item or not.
get a bus visit, say arrive at 8pm, surprise her.
but to me it sounds as if she has someone else, but you'll have to visit to get the proof, i would not wait till 2008, id be out now with friends getting someone else.
2007-12-11 14:06:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋