I was at my dates house. and i endend up having to sleep over, because i missed my train. and one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together. I actually really like this guy. and while we were in bed (before we had had sex) i asked him what we were. and he wasnt really giving me a strait answer, but keep telling me he liked me, and that me living far from him (2 hours) we wouldnt be able to see each other for a real relashonship.
how can i still attrack this guy even thought se sleept together. i dont want him to lose interest....help
(by the way this guy kinda has a big ego)
2007-12-11 13:47:25 · 17 answers · asked by Suzzysue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy with a big ego who only told he liked you to get sex and also told you he wouldn't be able to see you or have a real relationship with you (even though he lives only 2 hours away). He can just only sleep with you. I wouldn't want to ever see him again, he sounds like an _sshole.
2007-12-11 13:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by fantagirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going through the exact same thing and I'm sorry to say that this guy will not be attracted to you no matter what. You can change some stuff, but when a guy is into you, he'll be willing to do whatever just to be with you. Try to slowly get over him, keep telling yourself it won't work out so you don't end up disappointed. I'm so sorry. ;(
2007-12-11 13:52:05 · answer #2 · answered by mastermindkg 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all he just told you nicely he doesn't want a relationship read between the lines!
If he wanted to be with you he would have said so but by him saying "we wouldn't be able to have a REAL RELATIONSHIP..." tells all.
But you could always just put yourself out there let him know how you feel. Take a chance in other words.
Don't be a bug- a- boo though major turn off!!!!
2007-12-11 13:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by YasMeen01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is not to sleep with anyone until you know that you are in a relationship with them. You gave him free sex. Think about it, do you think he wants a girl that will sleep with someone so quickly? He will think that you are easy. You may care about him but he doesn't care about you. Next time don't be so eager to please. Have more respect for yourself.
2007-12-11 14:00:35 · answer #4 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly sweety, im sorry 2 be so bold but.. if he doesn't relaly wanna work hard 4 the relationship 2 work... it doesn't really seem 2 me like he's really interested in a real relationship... he just wants 2 get into ur pants... find some1 else who will be there 4 u...
2007-12-11 13:51:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you already slept with him right?
I don't think there is much hope left!
You know what most guys are like!
Keep your fingers crossed, there is a slight chance that he might turn out to be a different kind!
2007-12-11 13:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by Protik Maitra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he lost respect for you gilr. seriously the fact that you slept with him made him lose interest because he went as far as he possibly could with you, now what? u wanna keep him. dont give in so easy. dont make urself sooo available. and ull see how many boys wanna get in your sheets.
2007-12-11 13:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by FukcingAngel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't sweat him.. don't show him that you are dying for a relationship. show him that it was a mistake but you have pride in yourself. let him come after you, let him pursue you.. show him that you have a life... don't jump at his request.. make yourself unavailable and very busy all of a sudden... a man likes an independent woman and a woman who isn't crawling for him..make him crawl for you.
2007-12-11 13:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by nyc independant woman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i would say just keep him wanting more.. you no like be sexy and just call him but not so much he feels that your not giving him space but always keep him wondering so that he calls you. be a little more flirtacious.
hope all works good for you and him =]
2007-12-11 13:51:37 · answer #9 · answered by lilly R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. . . the damage has been done. You gave him what he wanted and he'll want nothing more except a piece of @**.
2007-12-11 13:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by peaches6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋