I am 32 years old and met a single 40 year old man with no children and we hit it off really well. He calls me and we talk for hours but this happens when he is up for it. We have known each other for 2 months and since then have been on about 4 dates. I have not had sex with him although he has shown me his strong desire to have sex with me. We have come close just things didn't fall into place. He will call me back, flirt with me, tell me how unique, fun, special that I am and how I will make a great wife and mother...etc. This is the weird behavior...Every time I pull back and decide to write him off that is when he becomes more attentive, When I have tried to discuss it with him he finds ways to deflect the conversation and then “hides” for a few days or week. I do give him space. I am sure the he is just not into me is the answer but since he is not getting sex from me and I have tried to let him go twice....why does he try to come back? What is this about?
2007-12-11 13:46:35 · 2 answers · asked by KidFromBrooklyn 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would indicate that at 40 he is afraid to make a commitment. You can go along forever this way, or force the issue, or walk away. Your choice.
2007-12-11 13:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fairly simple- guys want what they cant have!
2007-12-11 21:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by mary c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋